ken chang
Don Juan
Last night, my AFC brother went out for drinks with his ALPHA friend, his ALPHA friend's HOT GF, and HOT GF's best friend.
The night was going quite well, when ALPHA had to go use the men's room.
My brother had to go pay, so the ladies were left alone at the table.(extra question: BTW, was this a bad move on my brother's part? Leaving 2 girls alone, one of them a HB8-9, in a club?)
While the girls were alone, a DUDE sat down next to the HOT GF and chatted her up a little.
My brother was on his way back when the DUDE saw him. The DUDE got up, gave my brother a tap on his shoulder, and left.(extra question again: Does that mean anything? The shoulder tapping thing? I thought it was just the DUDE's way of saying "Had to try. No hard feelings". I don't know.)
My brother asked HOT GF if she knew the DUDE and if he had offended her in anyway. HOT GF said no to both questions. So my brother just ignored the incident.
They were about to leave the club when my brother mentioned the incident to ALPHA. ALPHA suddenly gets all pissed off and demanded that my brother point the DUDE out so that ALPHA could beat the crap out of him. ALPHA says it was an insult to him that this DUDE approached his girl. My brother calmed ALPHA down and told him not to start a fight because they had women with them. ALPHA was convinced but he still said that my brother should have told him while they were still in the club.
Now my brother has AIKIDO training and the incident has emasculated him severely. He considers himself chicken sh!t now and for the life of him couldn't understand why his gut told him not to fight when he could have handled himself well in a fight anyway.
My questions are:
1. Was there cause to fight? Had a line been crossed?
2. Was it just my brother's AFC nature which told him not to fight?
3. Was it ALPHA's alpha male nature that told him to fight?
The night was going quite well, when ALPHA had to go use the men's room.
My brother had to go pay, so the ladies were left alone at the table.(extra question: BTW, was this a bad move on my brother's part? Leaving 2 girls alone, one of them a HB8-9, in a club?)
While the girls were alone, a DUDE sat down next to the HOT GF and chatted her up a little.
My brother was on his way back when the DUDE saw him. The DUDE got up, gave my brother a tap on his shoulder, and left.(extra question again: Does that mean anything? The shoulder tapping thing? I thought it was just the DUDE's way of saying "Had to try. No hard feelings". I don't know.)
My brother asked HOT GF if she knew the DUDE and if he had offended her in anyway. HOT GF said no to both questions. So my brother just ignored the incident.
They were about to leave the club when my brother mentioned the incident to ALPHA. ALPHA suddenly gets all pissed off and demanded that my brother point the DUDE out so that ALPHA could beat the crap out of him. ALPHA says it was an insult to him that this DUDE approached his girl. My brother calmed ALPHA down and told him not to start a fight because they had women with them. ALPHA was convinced but he still said that my brother should have told him while they were still in the club.
Now my brother has AIKIDO training and the incident has emasculated him severely. He considers himself chicken sh!t now and for the life of him couldn't understand why his gut told him not to fight when he could have handled himself well in a fight anyway.
My questions are:
1. Was there cause to fight? Had a line been crossed?
2. Was it just my brother's AFC nature which told him not to fight?
3. Was it ALPHA's alpha male nature that told him to fight?