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    Man.. fvck you all. Looks DO matter.

    An unattractive man with style and class looks MUCH better than an attractive man with neither of those things. I'm a believer that the clothes (and the lifestyle that goes along with them) makes the man.
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    Cheated On Her Boyfriend..

    LOL it's not a waste of time at all. Now is it different for 2010 Jessica Alba? What if they BOTH came in? Would you have a threesome with them? :crazy:
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    hey, new guy here

    If you're that nervous, consider following the DJ Bible here on the site - it's the best free course I've ever seen that works towards getting you massively approaching girls. In my opinion though, life is more than approaching women, and so you should also work to develop your personal life -...
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    Less then 2 weeks left...What to do?!

    Yeah, this sounds like a lack of communication to me. Why on earth haven't you brought it up yet? Women want men who LEAD. Grow a pair and define the relationship already. You wanna make it work when you're in NYC? Then TELL HER.
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    Cheated On Her Boyfriend..

    You didn't know she had a bf. You found out later. Played it cool. I don't see any problems here. But obviously you're upset with yourself. So a have a couple pieces of advice. 1) Don't drink so much. Perhaps you're feeling guilty over that. So cut back next time you're out. 2) Don't...
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    omg grrrr! ... need a way to filter this if i can? .. lil help?

    So... you go out over the weekend, get a couple of numbers, they don't work out, so now you're frustrated? Answers easy, meet more women. I think a relationship is an admirable goal. But you can't say "I have a problem" after so few closes. I haven't met any women over the past hour. Does...
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    Getting ex back?

    every breakup is unique. Just saying "can I get my ex back" is as pointless as saying "can I find a good place to live." Too general for anyone to answer. I agree with Donnie, you need to give her a less-important spot in your life. Don't worry about her as much as you worry about your...
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    Was i played?

    yeah man, sounds more like you played yourself by trying to play it cool instead of just being a regular person, saying hi when you recognize her, and asking for your money back. Why did you give her 3 bucks in the first place? You'd never talked to her before... You could've at least asked...
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    Me seeing her 2x/week vs. Her seeing her friends 7x/week

    If you're an interesting person she'll want to see more of you... If you have a full life, full of hobbies and work that you're interested in, she's going to be drawn into your enthusiasm. Guys try this "gift of missing her" business in an attempt to nurture this, as well as to keep themselves...
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    How do you respond to girls fishing for compliments?

    bookman, if you just said 'Congratulations' she may have been trying to genuinely figure out if you thought it looked nice or not. At the same time, guys who notice haircuts and obviously understand style a little bit are rare, so I never miss an opportunity to say a girl's new hair looks nice...
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    DJ Bible and the DJ Forums Conflicting messages

    I like this thread a lot. If you are living a life that YOU enjoy, you have a job that YOU like, and you have hobbies that YOU are passionate about, then women will begin to feel that enthusiasm radiating off of you. In simpler terms, it will automatically cause you to carry a good vibe around...
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    Need To Make Changes - Suggestions Welcome

    Congrats on the life changes man. Now's the time to really decide what kind of character you want to portray. If you're a dancer, it's time to master the clubs. If you're a fitness guy, start training for runs, going to group activities at your gym, etc. If you're a movie buff, find a circle...
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    How to be more sexual verbally?

    Innuendo is always good. Learn how to make an innuendo. If she mentions that she likes, for example, one of those large park fountains that cities sometimes have, say that you can't hang out around it because it looks so phallic. If she mentions, say, the walls in her apartment, ask her how...
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    Having a crisis.

    Flirty girls can be all talk and no action, especially if she's leading all the interactions (which is what seems to be the case here). Try teasing her back. Instead of letting her put her head in and pulling it away, you do it to her. You don't know if the erotic talk is joking or not? Then...
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    Struggling with simple interaction involving women

    It sounds like your character is lacking. What kind of men draw women's attention? -Fun guys, who don't have enough hours in the day to do all the fun stuff they wanna do. -Charismatic guys, the ones who are able to project their enthusiasm so well that they have everyone wanting to go places...
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    This will be unpopular, but has anyone tired stopping this pick up stuff?

    I've seen a ton of guys quit sarging, cause it's just random talking to women and trying to think of the perfect thing to say that will make her immediately want to sleep with him. I have also seen men who are seeking to actually improve their lives, become better people than they were, and see...
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    Best time to contact a female

    Considering she drunkenly made out with you in a bar, I'm going to guess that she woke up the next morning, thought "Jesus, I was drunk last night", saw your text and thought "Oh, God, what did I tell this guy...." So, in answer to your question, text whatever and whenever is most convenient...
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    Relationships.

    Sounds like both of you know how to amp up the sexual conversation like mad, but when it comes to fun and charisma (the kinds of vibes that are sexually neutral, but NOT boring) you're at a loss.
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    How the hell do you guys get replies on POF?

    Sounds like its mostly a vibing issue. Women (and men, in all honesty) don't relate to stuff. Even if they like exactly the same things you like, if you come off with a gray, dead energy, they're going to be bored by you. Not that I'm criticizing you. Learned how to have an attractive energy...
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    New guy needs some tips!

    Nothing wrong with a smart guy, but you're still being vague. What does 'a school guy' mean? If you're studying biology you'd spend time in labs. If you study computer you spend time in... well, computer labs lol. If you study politics you probably have some work of thinktank-esque...
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