Hey guys,
First, before I begin, I want to thank all of you who have been responding and helping me throughout this AMAZING time I've been having..
With that being said, here I go. Basically, I've been hooking up with this girl for 2 months now. It just took a step further last weekend as we went on our first 2 "official" sober dates. They went extremely well. However, were both graduating college this week and are only going to be in town for about a week and a half. We have NOT discussed what were doing after we graduate.
As far as I'm concerned I've just been rolling with it and whatever happens, happens, but I don't want to leave with a big ? as to where her and I stand. I've been waiting for her to bring it up, which she hasn't yet, because I know that its basically the girls responsibility to bring up the whole "what are we talk." But time IS ticking and I honestly don't know if she is going to bring it up, which leads me to my question: WTF SHOULD I DO?
Do I bring it up to her on the last night here? Do I just let it go and hope that she brings it up?
Basically my dilemma here is that were both going to be in NYC this summer and probably for a long time. This girl is PERFECT and I want to be with her when I'm home, and I'm pretty sure that she does also which is why this is weird that it hasn't been discussed.
What are you guys' thoughts?
Thanks again.
First, before I begin, I want to thank all of you who have been responding and helping me throughout this AMAZING time I've been having..
With that being said, here I go. Basically, I've been hooking up with this girl for 2 months now. It just took a step further last weekend as we went on our first 2 "official" sober dates. They went extremely well. However, were both graduating college this week and are only going to be in town for about a week and a half. We have NOT discussed what were doing after we graduate.
As far as I'm concerned I've just been rolling with it and whatever happens, happens, but I don't want to leave with a big ? as to where her and I stand. I've been waiting for her to bring it up, which she hasn't yet, because I know that its basically the girls responsibility to bring up the whole "what are we talk." But time IS ticking and I honestly don't know if she is going to bring it up, which leads me to my question: WTF SHOULD I DO?
Do I bring it up to her on the last night here? Do I just let it go and hope that she brings it up?
Basically my dilemma here is that were both going to be in NYC this summer and probably for a long time. This girl is PERFECT and I want to be with her when I'm home, and I'm pretty sure that she does also which is why this is weird that it hasn't been discussed.
What are you guys' thoughts?
Thanks again.