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dont worry about that...just tlak to alot of people, build relationships with the friends you already have and try to start new ones. i stopped worrying about being popular, i did my own thing i had fun and i just graduated last week, im happy, i have a new gf, i just got a new car...damn...

okay so we were rubbing up on eachother, and i shifted my buddy to make it more comfortable...then later on i fingered her. im pretty sure my fingers were dry so the chances of sperm surving are low...but im still freaking out here. and what are the chances of sperm getting through 4 layers of...

how..what would i say

so ive been chilling with a girl recently, she just told me last night that she likes me. and today she asked my friend if she knows if im gona ask her out or not. ive never had to do that before, it was always just assumed...so umm what do i do

ya your right...ive been more aware of any negative self talk i have and trying to work on inner stuff....like just today, she told me she wanted to tell me something..and immediatly i started thinking "oh no, she doesnt like me...shes gona tell me off, bla bla bla"...and them bam, she goes and...

i dunno, im just confused...ive been reading stuffon this site for over a year..and just in the past few weeks i started getting out in the real world. i've learned so much lately...but ya girls are confusing as ****

ive chilled with this chick 4 times so far...and i was too shy and nervous to make a move on her..most i went for was a hug on the 4th time we chilled. and today on aim she tells me she lieks me...her words were "ive been kinda feelin u lately:o " ....i th ought for sure there would be no...

this confused the **** out of me...ive chilled with a girl twice so far..tomorrow is gona be our third time. i havent made any moves on her on the last two times....so we planned to watch a movie at my place then go watch fireworks..so this is what she txts me tonight. "2mrow after work...

socializing might improve social skills..hmm. or hanging out with some friends who have better social skills than you...better than watching it from the boob tube...heh

i've made some big damn improvements lately...i went from talking to no girls all year to seeing 3 different girls at the same time. one who im not interested in anymore, and the other two i just had a "date" with this week. im good at getting the covnersation going, they show some interest...

i noticed lately if i have a girl with me at my locker, more guys will be like "yooo bjj_playa" and give me a five or something....and if im alone they act different...meh w/e

yea i was wondering the same thing....i chilled with a girl last night and she kept asking me about something she heard at school with some other girls.

lol...i've been doing this, and i just found out last night that two of the girls are actually friends. one texted me lst night saying "why the hell are you asking "hfidg" to chill with you when im with her and i just asked you what you were doing later tonight??" :kick:

yes practice will help....i've had the same problem, and everyday im improving more and more. part of it is the insecurities or the fear (whatever it may be) and the other part is the lack of experience. i got a job where im serving lots of customers, so as time goes on, that fear of speaking...

k well somewhat of an update with this one.... we made plans to go to see a movie...well she was going to see a movie with her friend and she invited me. so its going to be them two and me. not sure how comfortable im goign to be with her friend there, i would have prefered to chill just...

i met a chick last week...we talked in person twice since then..i see her at school. i heard from one of her friends that shes a flirt and she does this to lots of guys..dont know how true it is. but anyway shes been showing ALOT of interst these past two days...to the point where im kinda...

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from my experience you have to build a certain comfort level with them. i have some friends who last year started to chill with these other dudes. i didnt know the other guys but i tagged along. there were times where they would chill and not call me out and when i'd chill with them it was...

girls hitting you a good sign?...theres 3 chicks that walk up to me daily...and slap me hard right on the back or give me shots on the arm..but not girly hit...theyre actually grunting and giving me all they got lol. i know one of them is really into me..but i've never experienced all this...

beat me to it...:whistle: