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    Got dumped because she felt I didnt appreciate her or spend enough time with her

    Ok, so my girlfriend dumped me yesterday. We were together about a month (I know, its a short time for her to be my gf but let me explain) So I am currently living in spain and I met her through a conversation exchange website where you meet people in order to practice language, in this...
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    Met a girl on dating site. Not sure if I want to continue. Dont want to hurt her...

    So here is my quandary... A few weeks ago I met a girl from a dating site and we have been going out for a couple of drinks here and there. We must have been out about 8 times or so and each time we make out etc but no sex. Now, I'm still very much wired to see relationships as just a pure...
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    How do you sleep with a girl then leave her without being too much of a ****?

    So basically, I met this girl and thought she was hot, we made out in the club and i took her number. I meet her the following week for a drink (I tend to have a few drinks before i meet a girl to loosen up) We have a good time, lots of making out, but we don't have any sex. Then I meet...
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    29 yr old virgin girl I met on Okcupid

    Ok, so this is a bit strange. I met a girl on okcupid, went out with her twice. First time we went out we had a bunch of drinks and made out a hell of a lot - I invited her back, but she declined. I was like, ok, whatever - i'm sure i'll hit it soon... Second time we went out we went to...
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    Got girls number online - she replies to first text, not the second??

    Ok, so I'm on OkCupid and I get this girls number, here is a transcript of the conversation that led to getting her number: I message her (commenting on her profile): Really good at drama hey? cute girl who's good at drama... dangerous combination... (SMILY FACE) …………………. She says...
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    Text to remind her of tomorrows date

    Do you guys text a girl the day before a first date? If so, what do you text? It was thursday that we organised to meet on monday so I think I should send her a small reminder, but don't want to send some boring 'hey, hope you havn't forgotten about tomorrow' or some other needy ****. I was...
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    Girl smothers you in bed - wont leave you long enough to breath!

    Have any of you guys ever slept with a girl that just seemed needy as hell in bed? I'm talking about a girl that wants to kiss CONSTANTLY (usually very bad and sloppy at it) they just keep kissing past the point of sanity, its like they want to actually eat your face! This girl has quite a big...
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    Married girl keeps texting me

    So I started seeing this married girl (met her in a bar, met up a few times and fvcked once). She is away for Christmas to see family, and she texts me every other day with shiit like 'you having a nice christmas then, what you upto today?' Should I bother to reply to any of this? It seems...
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    Best Places for public sex?

    Hi there, I am meeting a chick tomorrow during the day, I know she is down to fvck but she can't make any other time. What are you guys recommendations for out of the way places to get a girls pants off when you are out with her? eg, public restrooms, parks etc. I don't want to waste too much...
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    she asks 'what do you do?' but I am unemployed

    So I met this girl the other day and we have had a text exchange, that goes something along the lines of: me: 'hey plumbum, I had a gtreat time with you at ......the other night, it would be nice to see you again, by the way, what sort of animal do you think would make a better pet, a turtle or...
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    'What do you do?'

    So I met this girl the other day and we have had a text exchange, that goes something along the lines of: me: 'hey plumbum, I had a gtreat time with you at ......the other night, it would be nice to see you again, by the way, what sort of animal do you think would make a better pet, a turtle or...
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    Without alcohol I don't smile, have no energy, and do not enjoy clubs.

    Just wondering if anybody has successfully overcome this problem... You see, up until recently, when I have gone out I have tended to indulge quite heavily in the sauce. As we all know, it is great for loosening up and getting into the party spirit etc. The thing is, when I am not drinking I...
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    im pissed off at myself - field report

    I went out sarging last night was queuing up for the club on my own as my friends were inside, I notice a lone girl join the queue behind me. I can kind of sense that she would be responsive to being opened, so I chat to her on the way in. She is from peru and really hot. I say to her that im...
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    How Long does it take to lose weight by cutting out alcohol?

    I havn't gone longer than 2 weeks at a time without an alcoholic drink for some years now. I would like to lose the beer belly. I work out etc, but im not really getting anywhere, so I'm going to cut out booze. Just wondering, has anybody done this and how did they experience the weight loss...
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    Unemployment - depression - phobia - alcoholism

    I have been largely unemployed since I left university 2 years ago. For some reason I cannot bring myself to look for work. I think I have some kind of phobia about it. I know I will sound like a lazy sonofa***** and yes, I am, but that is not all there is to this. You see, I hate the idea of...
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    Text Game

    So i'm wondering what sorts of things have you guys successfully texted girls. Im talking about: setting up day 2's. Random texts - just to stay in contact Text's to set up dates texts when they are being flakey basically, any good stuff that you have and like to text girls...
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    When a girl doesn't answer your calls

    So I met a girl in a bar, slept with her the night I met her. Saw her again the next week, went for a drink, and slept with her again. Now, The other day I sent her a text at around 9pm saying 'evening sexy, hows life? just thought it was time for some casual text. What you upto? x' This I...
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    how to emotionally detach and be a pua

    I am beginning to get good at picking up women. I like doing it, and I enjoy the sex but when the 'relationship' ends, as it will, I kind of feel slightly emotionally involved, kind of like the lesser pain of splitting from a girlfriend. To give you an example, I met a girl from America in a...
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    ex gf - probs - want to tell her to stop being a slvt

    So i am good friends with an ex of mine she has just told me she has got dumped by yet another bf she gets dummped a lot she wants kids by age 26 and she is 22 yrs old she makes this obvious. she is blonde hair - big tits, big ass - dippy personaliy and flaunts her physical...
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    Help - Quarter life crisis

    Holy *censored* - at this moment in time my life seems to be going nowhere. I desperately need some help and some advice. A little about me... I graduated in 2006 with a 2,1 in English Literature from Reading University. Since then I have done a couple of stints in bars, been on the...
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