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    Online Forum? This forum is drowning in online posts..

    I'm not judging those who turn to online dating. But it's a whole different game. So many posts here involve online girls, girls that guys haven't even met yet. It's very uninteresting. I don't learn anything that i can use. Online game is a confidence killer. It's all looks and very little...
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    FR: A potential plate. Interesting insights.

    A few weeks back i ended up making out with a coworker at a work related christmas event. We used to work in the same building, but now she has relocated so we work at different offices. I never really made any moves on her before, but always found her attractive. I've been able to demonstrate...
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    Alcohol abuse.

    Binge drinking has been an issue for me over several years, but now it has come out of control. Even though it's not an addiction and that i only drink on the weekends, it's clearly much related to some sort of alcoholism. It's no secret that my confidence has taken a huge blow after my...
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    Preparing yourself for a life without a woman by your side.

    After turning 30 and not being anywhere near where i thought i'd be at this point in my life, i'm slowly trying to prepare myself for ending up alone. Given the fact that 50% of all relationships (100% of mine) fail, and that it gets harder to find decent, available women every time, the...
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    FR: The one that didn't flake. First date after LTR. Losing interest already. FML.

    After being dumped i have been out pretty much 2-3 times every week + 2 full weeks now during my summer holiday. I get rejected almost in all sets, but sometimes i can get a number or two. Most numbers i get flake, but one of these numbers actually turned into a date. The first date i've had...
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    Dumped again so I'm back..Some ranting, some hard earned wisdom and some questions.

    Hey guys. So i'm back..four years later. Heartbroken and sad but a little bit wiser this time around. When I found this site in 2005 I had, like most of us, just been dumped. To make matters worse, this was by my first ever girlfriend and sex partner. We had been together for 3,5 years. I...
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    Would you care about something so insignificant?

    Hey. I've been together with my gf for about 6 months. She just moved from her town to mine, to move in with me. Leaving behind family, friends, part-time job and changed her school (same acedemy, but different town). Everything is going great and I feel stronger about her every day. She has...
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    From bitter cynic to romantic chode? Help before it's too late.

    Hey guys. I'm lost and I don't know why.. I've been single for 3,5 years after a tough breakup with my ex. Then i found the community and tried to better myself to get the girls i wanted and also got some nice tools in my toolkit. During those years i've slept with 35 girls of various...
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    LR: Beer-date

    A little over a month ago I met this foreign exchange student at a party for law students. I was kinda drunk when I approached her but in a fairly good state and all my sets that night opened easily. We had a few minutes of good convo before closing time and I #closed her and told her that I'd...
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    Life reaches all-time low...

    So..it has come to the point where I have to write down my thoughts and seek help from you guys. I'm on the verge of depression. Mainly due to girlproblems. I'm afraid it's going to be a long rant, but I just need to air my thoughts :s After a tough breakup 18 months ago I found this site and...
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    Standards and desperation..

    Ok. I'm making this thread because I'm worried about my "field-work" lately. My standards with women have always been very high. Maybe even unrealistic. I found the dreamgirl and was with her for 3,5 years. Like many other guys you always think you can do better or atleast find someone equally...
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    Semi-tested Kiss-close routine

    Ok guys, this "routine" is not fully field tested. I've done it 3 times and it worked perfectly 2 times. The 3rd time however i got the no-go. She had a bf so that might have caused it but I'm not sure. I still think it's interesting enough to share with everyone. While doing this routine...
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    What are they trying to do?

    Ok I didn't know where to post this but I like the replies of guys posting in this section the best, so here it goes. There are 2 things I'd like to get some insights on, somewhat related but not quite. 1st. One of my friends has a tendency to ask me weird questions. I have no idea if...
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    Transitioning into sex-talk..

    When you have isolated a target and try to make the whole thing more sexual, how do you transition from "normal" talk into sexual conversation? You should ofcourse have started kino'ing her from the start, but I'm interested in how you make the convo sexual (Provided that you already haven't...
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    Trouble connecting/bonding with girls..

    Sometimes I feel like I have a hard time bonding with girls. I'm very social and outgoing and I have no problems keeping a conversation flowing. Problem is that I find it hard to transition into "deeper" topics..creating that kind of rapport that leads her into falling for or being attracted to...
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    DR: Mixed signals on 2nd date (long)

    Hey guys! I'm currently trying to game a girl that is quite a bit younger than me. I'm 23 and she is almost 18. almost ;) I like dating younger girls because i think girls my age are too boring and serious. This chick is about HB7.5 with a tight hot body. Kinda smallish titties though. oh...
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    Cheat Sheets

    ***Please don't move this to tips-section. I want to get people opinions on this and even get ideas to improve and expand the sheet*** As we all know, taking notes and reviewing them will make us remember stuff better and will get us better results. In the seduction community there are insane...
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    Quick tip to make it more playful..

    This "tip" applies for the mid-phase of a PU, during comfortbuilding and to create tension. If we have good chemistry and I have just started to make the conversation become more sexual, I ask her " On a scale from 1 to 10, how many times would you sleep with me?" The question in itself is...
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    Online Assh0le

    Hey. I want to try something new with my online profile. I want to see what responses i will get by having the profile of a real jerk. Don't flame me for using the net to meet girls. I'm mostly in the field, I just use it as an addition, and I've had good success with it. But I want to...
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    Quick question

    I have a 2nd date with a girl on friday and I'll probably just take her to a bar for a couple of glasses of wine and some interesting conversation. Question; When our table is kind of like a "booth" that is meant for 4 people with benches on each side..where would you sit? I think it's very...
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