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I realize I haven't met all of you, but if you suck at life please allow me to take a wild guess why... well, actually it's not a wild guess at all, but I am looking at statistically significant reasons why life tends to suck for people. 1) A lack of social support. You don't have really good...

Responsibility is the ability to choose you response. Guilt often restricts one's ability to choose from a full range of choices. Guilt can cause one to take choices off the table, choices that might be in one's own best interest. I know from firsthand experience and from discussions with many...

I was talking to someone recently and I realized this person had no genuine contact with anyone, ever. It makes me wonder how many people fall into this situation since "modern living" has made it so easy to avoid face to face contact. Putting the pieces together this guy 1) Works doing phone...

Guys this weekend is the weekend to do something for the LTRs. One of the easiest things I've found is renting a room. Amazingly, girls dont even care if it's far away or not, they just like staying in B&Bs, high rise rooms with a view, or historic district hotels. All you have to do is rent a...

No single theory can ever account for all the experiences a human might have, but I think this one can be helpful for understanding why someone (perhaps yourself even) is struggling in life. The basic premise of psychodynamic theories is that development is determined largely by the resolution...

So I had a wart removed recently. The doc called to confirm it was an HPV strain. Didn't really feel like chatting about it, so I looked up some basic info "Most men who get HPV (of any type) never develop any symptoms or health problems. But some types of HPV can cause genital warts. Other...

SO this past weekend I took a short field trip. Only two women were involved, both are in the process of divorcing. This is a bit of a deviation from my standard operating procedure because there is more chance of the women hounding me as relationship material. O well, ANyway I found the...

Ok so the other day I banged this chick and all that, well today her bf txts me and all this **** going on and on about how he told her not to let me eat her out blah blah blah. Then she txts me and says they are prolly breaking up and he's acting crazy. Anyway it comes out that after I...

So last night I meet this chick and I am hungry so we eat, then I tell her we should go back to my place to watch a movie (I usually don't bring chicks back here, but just so happened to work out and I wasn't wanting to mess with a hotel or finding a backroad). Her husband is being a pain and...

I dunno why I did this to myself but I decided to seduce a "good girl" who doesnt cheat on her bf. We talked on the phone the day before quite a bit. Well anyway she was kind of peeved because he had some girls tits from a bar on his phone so I knew the iron was hot, but I had nowhere to take...

Ive been finding a lot online lately and I've been so busy going through them that I havent gotten out to look in person hardly at all. Now the online supply is getting thinner and rather than meet the same ones over and over I am switching back to bars/clubs tonight. This pattern happens...

"How To Program Others To Dream What You Wish - Here it is, my fabulous "Dream VCR". Learn to influence others erotically AND OTHERWISE when they are dreaming and asleep! Married, single or somewhere in between, THINK OF THE POTENTIAL!" It is sad that there really are people out there who...

1) Set firefox to clear personal info without asking. Otherwise one day she will use your computer and see someone you've been emailing or something. 2) Set you PC to log out after 5 minutes of inactivity.. otherwise you'll accidently leave that post on sosuave on the screen! 3) Check for...

Today was interesting. Ive been with women before and felt the huge "gush" of a squirting orgasm before, but I had never seen it actually come shooting out right infront of my face before.... today I have to wonder no more =) The first time I was banging her over a table and right after I...

Search the forum and you'll find a lot of posts about "what do I do in response to X comments". This idea is stemming out of the belief that there is a specific best response for every type of comment and if one could just memorize all of these he would be the master jedi of conversation. I...

I'm meeting a chick in a couple of hours. Even in the dead middle of the day with my car trashed like no other, I can be almost positive we're going to pork becuase that's pretty much always what happens. I didn't get her phone number, I just emailed her on a dating site and told her I wanted to...

One of the big issues that I think can hold anyone back is labeling. It could be any label but I'll just throw out one example. Let's say as a child someone is labeled as socially clumsy or shy or whatever. The person may then internalize the label and viola it becomes "who they are". It's...

5 quick tips: 1. The norm of reciprocity: If you are friendly, people will likely be friendly back. If you ignore people, they will probably ignore you also. 2. Forget about 'Amoging': I am just cool to the guys or ignore them. I can't think of anytime in recent history I needed to 'AMOG'...

I'm amazed that guys have spent hours analyzing what they coulda/shoulda/oughta do to fend off "AMOGS". Here's what I suggest just because I think it would be funny to do: Tell him you're going to show him something cool, then have your wing grab him while you give him an atomic wedgie. An...

Watching how some of my friend's have progressed, I think I have a rough guide of the evolution from the lowest form of thinking to the highest (regarding success with women heirarchy). Obviously this is highly subjective, so don't take offensive if this describes your situation unjustly =)...