everywomanshero
Master Don Juan
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I was talking to someone recently and I realized this person had no genuine contact with anyone, ever. It makes me wonder how many people fall into this situation since "modern living" has made it so easy to avoid face to face contact.
Putting the pieces together this guy 1) Works doing phone based work from a cubicle so he never deals with anyone face to face. Im not even sure if they have weekly meetings or anything, it sounded like the only time he ever saw a supervisor was if there was a complaint. 2) Looks for women at dating sites. Again, avoids the face to face component of initially meeting. 3) When I asked if he paid bills online, I think he knew I was going to suggest something awful... the need for face to face contact with people.
It's very difficult to realize your vibe, the relational aspects of human communication over a damn telephone. People need to be in face to face situations, to really get a sense for how you mesh with others. I dare say that if one finds his entire life is engulfed in technologies, it is high time to begin making significant changes.
There is a real world out there, but nowdays it would be easy to structure one's life to avoid it, without even putting much thought into it.
Putting the pieces together this guy 1) Works doing phone based work from a cubicle so he never deals with anyone face to face. Im not even sure if they have weekly meetings or anything, it sounded like the only time he ever saw a supervisor was if there was a complaint. 2) Looks for women at dating sites. Again, avoids the face to face component of initially meeting. 3) When I asked if he paid bills online, I think he knew I was going to suggest something awful... the need for face to face contact with people.
It's very difficult to realize your vibe, the relational aspects of human communication over a damn telephone. People need to be in face to face situations, to really get a sense for how you mesh with others. I dare say that if one finds his entire life is engulfed in technologies, it is high time to begin making significant changes.
There is a real world out there, but nowdays it would be easy to structure one's life to avoid it, without even putting much thought into it.