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    Need help interpreting this girls behavior

    hey guys, its been a while since i've posted on this site, but a lot has improved for me since i first started out here. to catch up to the present, i have two girls i'm gaming at the moment with a desire to go for more lol. as it stands i have one girl(bout a 6.5 cuz she's a bit heavy) who...
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    a distinction i'm trying to make

    i was talking with a girl tonight about guys meeting girls, relationships and what attraction is about. you know its funny that it felt like what i was asking and talking about was borderline AFC/LBJF type stuff and yet it didn't matter to me if she started making any comments that made it out...
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    the answer is an always will be. be a man

    hey, i've been having a lot of difficulty lately in landing a chick. i've been noticing that although i've really been working on myself and improving my life. that its a lot easier to deal with that than dealing with the confusion and frustration that comes from not being able to know what...
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    why no sex?

    hey guys, i've hung out with this girl now a few times and when we make out (i go in for kiss 90% and she goes in for the remaining 10%) she initiates the french kissing. only when i build anticipation and start running my hand on her lower leg, she moves it back up. or holds my hand. i had...
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    what else can i come up with?

    hey guys, i noticed lately that this girl i'm becoming exclusive with keeps bringing up all the fun she's been having with her friends and i really have no problems with that. only i realize that this is the extent of our conversation. i bring up getting shyt faced with some friends and she...
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    too harsh a voicemail message?

    haha ok i know this post already is going to get a lot of the "who gives a sh*t" responses, but hey is there such thing as being too assertive or agressive? cuz this girl was supposed to hang out with me and hasn't showed up, so i'm tempted to leave this on her voicemail: "you know, this is...
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    is it better to show interest?

    hey everyone, i had a thought about something. there is currently one girl i've been meaning to become exclusive with as it was brought up and i asked her honestly if she was interested in dating solely or dating more than one, and she said solely. and now i'm wondering if the sort of...
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    is her not calling me a sign shes shy? or NI?

    Hey guys, well there was one particular girl i was wanting to pull, but lately she's been asking me to call her. i am not the kind of guy that enjoys making calls out to girls continously without some kind of reciprocation on their part, but i've noticed lately that one particular girl won't...
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    girl hung out with me, didn't kiss close

    hey everyone, well i just got back from hanging out with a girl and while i normally would have had my lips all over this girl(and i mean that in the i wouldn't hesitate kissing her in a heartbeat way, and not the pouncing on her like a savage beast way). things went well and i had a...
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    is not saying much ruining my game?

    hey guys, Naturally I'm a fairly shy guy and I reserve what I say most of the time (out of habit of not saying/revealing too much), other times I'm sitting there without much to say. Usually when I do contribute, the person or, in this case, women will respond to what I'm saying. They'll...
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    Man I can't stand this

    Man nothing hits you harder than having to get experience in the dating game. Just treading on these waters is so unnerving to go through, I never know if I can falter at all to make sure I'm not going over the top and I'm not sure if I'm being "too much" and should tone it down or if it's a...
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    My latest frustrations

    I can't help but notice the difficulty I face when getting out there and trying to communicate with well pretty much anyone. Both girls and guys. People I'm interested in knowing and people I'm not interested in knowing. I try to think of things to say and sometimes I just speak without...
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    Should I move in?

    And I don't mean finding an apartment with a girl. I'm talking about this girl I know that recently had been dumped by her bf and normally I'd be wary about approaching this one, but if getting to where I've gotten has taught me anything its that its best to concern yourself with the present and...
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    I can't get "dates"!

    Hey guys, I've been having problems getting together with the girls I've been getting numbers from. I don't spend much time approaching and would like to hear how the people who experienced this problem got past it or any wisdom that came out of it. To clarify my problem a little further...
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    Been linked to a stalker before?

    Man talk about a great first call to this girl I was interested in. She picks up and I just started talking like I would to a friend and she sounded all tired and short with her responses. Then she asked who I was and I made a joke, but it turned out that she thought I was some guy that stalked...
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    My fear of rejection isn't from being hurt

    Hey everyone, I had been encountering some resistance lately and I thought about fear of rejection and the losing out of an opportunity. I wondered about it and tried asking myself why I will have hesitation about approaching certain girls and why it seems easier to not take action than to...
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    Thinking this girl has "ex"cess baggage

    hey guys, well i hung out with this girl this weekend and things appeared to go well, but when i had to leave, some things threw me off. She mentioned she had an ex, but I asked if it was going to be a problem and she said no. Now I'm not so sure and I'm getting the feeling that he may...
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    Does a DJ ask if he'll be wasting his time?

    There's this girl that I'm not sure I like, but could see myself liking once I got to know her more. She's got a nice body, her face isn't anything spectacular but she's definitely doable lol. Now I'm just not sure if I should bother persuing, but then again it's not like I really did to...
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    Why do they follow us?

    Anyone get this? Because when I see it more and more I wonder why do they do it? Can they not help it or something? Is this what everyone is talking about? And by that I mean why girls follow a man who takes lead. What is it about a man that makes girls crumble to pieces for him? Why do they do...
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    why being an accomplished (something) isn't enough

    I never use what I do or will do for a living as my way in with women. But it does go to show you that even if you are the things that girls say are "attractive" or "sexy" it still won't get you very far if you don't have all the other **** together. Case and point, when I happen to talk to a...
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