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    A Girl's Friends...what is worse

    Girl 1: Outgoing, down to do just about anything, fun. She has many guy friends and a handful of girl friends. However she habitually chooses bad male friends. From a physically abusive ex boyfriend, to druggie friends, to "friends" that are just scumbag people. She has the same core group...
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    Texting to build rapport

    Met a girl last weekend who is really cute, problem is she lives more than 8 hours from me. So, pursuing anything with her is pointless at this time. I would however like to keep in touch and build rapport since I may see her again in the future. She said she'd like to come back to visit, and...
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    After sex, how does your game change

    Just as the title states. For the most part, how does a typical women change after having sex with her? Do they become emotionally attached easier? I would imagine you would be able to escalate more quickly after taking her to bed, and get away with more... How does game adapt after...
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    WANTING to call her out on her $hit, but...

    before I do, please read up and let me know how you'd respond, I feel like i'm getting played. :mad: Background: Met a "great" girl last month and been out with her about 3 times. She always has a good time when she's with me, laughing, joking, and genuinely having a good time. We've made...
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    When a girl plays hard to get between dates

    For example, you have good chemistry, good communication, then all of a sudden she starts "testing" you by playing harder to get. Once this happens I usually say fvck it. Some girls come back around and their attraction spikes and they begin to pursue me, and others just fizzle out when I...
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    I have met my match: Confident Alpha Female

    Well maybe not 100% alpha female, but totally different caliber girl than I am used to. She has drive, ambition, goals, sexy, the complete package. Been on a few dates already and they have gotten physical, no sex, but the attraction and "spark" is there. This one is throwing me through a...
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    Spinnin' Plates is WORK

    It really is a full time job! Casual Texting Occasional use of facebook Setting up dates/hang outs Actually hanging out/going on dates Making sure you don't run into any other "plates" while out Remembering unique stories from each different girl Surveying the venue when you're out to make...
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    Girl withdraws once interest is shown

    I've noticed this and it's really screwing up my game because I see this pattern repeating itself in basically all girls I go out with. I need to figure out if its something i'm doing, or just the way girls are naturally. (Age of girls i'm going out with are between 20-23) The scenario goes...
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    Action Date Ideas (Rainy Day)

    The place I have in mind apparently is a dump lol. Did some reviewing online and I'm not sure it's going to be any good. Trying to find a backup plan. It's going to rain tonight which sucks and kills most of my ideas. Anyone have a good suggestion for indoor action dates?
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    Do nice guys always finish last?

    This girl I just started talking to has 3 hardcore orbiters. I know for a fact she's manipulative to beta guys who cower to her... She has three orbiters who all want her. She gets so much male attention it's scary from them. The attention in my opinion is FRIENDLY, I see pictures posted and...
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    Bring multiple plates to same party?

    Is it smart to invite multiple plates to the same party? Girl 1: Vibing hardcore since we met through bodylanguage, kino and non-verbal flirting. Met a few days ago, have not hooked up with. (I don't hook up on a first meeting...its my style) Girl 2: See her only in the summertime...
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    Facebook Social Proof

    Facebook is a big part of how we now interact with one another. Like it or not, it's here to stay. Regarding social proof on facebook, (girls "liking" your status updates, "commenting" on your photos, writing on your wall, etc, etc) I update facebook infrequently, however when I do it's...
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    Keeping the conversation interesting, not like an interview

    I hate the "where do you live", "what do you do", "what are you studying" type questions. They are soooo boring and so common. From experience, what topics, tactics have you used to learn about a girl's personality without the routine BS interview questions.
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    Dealing with "your type"

    Teasing, Negs, DHV, yada yada yada with regular chicks is fun and not a big deal. I'm very picky when it comes to women, and occasionally i'll meet a girl who's drop dead gorgeous to me. Then for some reason i'll stumble with my game and it won't flow as naturally. I'm only human! Is there...
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    Wingman who kills game

    I think i'm going to answer my own question here. I've got a wingman who comes off as creepy, brings down the mood, and gets very upset at rejection. I think he may repel women to an extent. Is it better to fly with a wing who is lacking, or fly solo?
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    Getting girls, but not the ones I WANT...Last night FR too

    First off, a toxic LTR relationship will destroy your DJ progress. Such a mindtrip BPD women can lead you on! Glad to be out of that nightmare...getting back in the swing of things once again. Self Assessment: 6'2", 200lbs, cut shape, attractive, funny personality, I consider myself to be of...
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    Dealing with girls with LONG term relationship pasts

    Gentlemen, A question regarding your experience with girls/women who have a LONG term relationship history, or only one or two real "relationships". What are your opinions on these types of women? I've been in a lengthy relationship way back in the day and I know the psychological effect it...
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    Ideal girl? Help me get my head out of the clouds.

    First of all, this is crazy. I met a girl from Texas and can not stop thinking of her. The problem is, I'm from California. We met on a train, she was visiting friends and we bumped into eachother and hit it off, hung out all afternoon. Very high IOI on her part. Exchanged numbers and have...
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    Club/Bar Game

    I have a solid game outside of bars and nightclubs. I'm confident talking to girls at a supermarket, bookstore, on the street, at the mall, pretty much in everyday life. Get the number, hang out, good deal... I'm looking for quality women, not dirty slvts for an ONS. At bars/clubs with...
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    Jersey Shore : Sammi

    Jersey Shore is one of my guilty pleasures. Shhh! However for discussion id like to talk about the Ronnie, Sammi relationship. To me, she seems borderline (BPD). Always blaming, accusing, jealous, controlling, cannot forgive, always bringing up the past. Ronnie seems like a cool guy, but...
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