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    Girlfriend rarely calls, bad sign?

    Hi all, I have been with this girl for a month and a half and it seems like everything is going well. We see each other 4-5 days a week and she always buys me things for my house, is affectionate, initiated some of the dates, let me stay Friday night at her house, cooks for me, hang up my...
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    Sign of losing interest?

    Hi all, yesterday I went on my fifth date with this girl who I have been seeing for the last 2 and a half weeks. We walked in the park near my apartment, then I cooked her dinner, watched a little TV and then went to my bedroom and got physical with each other (did everything but sex since we...
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    She hasn't returned my call, what should I do?

    Hi all, I met this woman off craigslist, 28 years old (Im 25) and she is single, no kids. We met at Starbucks last Tuesday and we hit it off well and we had excellent rapport with each other. Then on Sunday night I took her bowling and we bowled and had dinner, she was touching me every five...
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    Online Dating Tips

    Hi all, I have been in contact with this girl online that I met through craigslist and so far through the last week we have been exchanging emails with each other. We exchanged pics as well. Yesterday, she sent me an email in which she gave me her phone number. As a result, I wanted to ask, how...
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    How to stop getting One-itis

    Fellas, for some reason, whenever I get physical with a girl(such as kissing, makin out or even sex) I end up getting one-itis for her and I turn all AFC. With the girl i went with friday, we made out for a lil bit, and today I called her to ask her out for the comin friday and no one answered...
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    Potential Blockers

    Aight, had the date with girl on Friday, take her for lunch and ice cream. We ended up doin sum deep kissing for a lil bit and then took her home and ended with a hug and kiss. Aight, so my intentions is to wait till Wednesday to call her. However, she hasn't called me yet or emailed me since...
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    Need advice

    Check it out, I met this girl from myspace last friday at Starbucks and meetin turned out well. She touched me couple times and she was laughin and smilin the whole time. I decided to wait till yesterday to call for the first real date. however, she emailed me on Saturday tellin me how good of a...
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    Doc Love System(Dating Dictionary)

    Hey all, I was able to download a significant portion of Doc Love's Dating Dictionary(from The System) and let me tell u, my confidence has gone up alot. The info is extremely valuable. I wasn't able to download all the info, but I got a significant porition of it and it is a must read. If...
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    When to call girl

    Aight, I got the number from the girl from myspace as she emailed it to me and what part of L.A. she is at and all. whens the best time 4 me to call and ask her to meet? On one hand, rules state to wait 48 hours, however this is someone Ive nver met face to face and plus Im thinkin of callin her...
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    Need advice about girl from myspace

    A few weeks back, saw this attractive girl on myspace so i messaged her, we messaged three times on my space and i got her email. then we exchanged two emails, heres what she said on the last one: "donimate me on the court i dont think so but any who glad you had fun in vegas did you bring me...
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    Techniques on girls by race

    As an Indian dude, ive dated women from diff races but due to my preference, I've happened to date mostly black women and here are my tips for those who date/prefer black women. - Keep things light/funny, do not bring up race unless she mentions it. Keep your mouth shut unless itll help your...
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    If you are looking for an LTR

    Fellas from my time at sosuave, one thing I've noticed is that if you are looking for an FWB or someone to regularly have sex with this site is for you. However, if u are looking for an LTR with a girl that is sweet, classy, of good quality this site is not for you. Don't get me wrong, on the...
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    rate my MySpace Profile

    Hey all, I was wonderin if u could rate my myspace.com profile and advise me on what changes I could make to it. Here it is: http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=9236320&Mytoken=20050518082811 Also, what is a good C/F message to send to a woman if I find her...
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    Need advice for my good friend

    Wassup yall? Haven't been in here a while due to bein busy with school, family, friends, sargin(with success), etc. Anyways, my good buddy came from India in August 03 to do his masters at USC and has been here ever since(he graduates this friday). In around April 04, he met this Latina girl(her...
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    Why having oneitis is unhealthy

    In ASU this past Saturday, their startin runnin back, shot and killed some guy at a club all because his guy was talkin to his(the RB's) girlfriend. Its not like they were kissing, havin sex or anything but he just shot and killed him immediately. Now Loren Wade(the RB) will have to spend the...
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    Approcaching women today

    Hey all, for my anthropology class Im doin a paper on dating/relationships and as a result, im doing a survey as one of my sources on what the ladies are lookin for. Ive done a lil surveying but ive been all nervous at making any sort of conversation with the ladies in fear of them thinkin im...
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    Why women do not like nice guys

    Many guys complain that women do not want nice guys and that they can't get any woman. If you wanna know why nice guys finish last, look no further than what happened in Wisconsin this past Saturday. The guy was a self proclaimed nice guy in that he was always quiet, went to church, never said...
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    Made some progress today

    Hey all, today I may have not gotten any numbers or anything, but I made a promise to say "Whats up" to every person(male and female) I came across, so that I would build more confidence around people I do not know and so I won't be afraid to do the cold approach. Today, I kept my promise and...
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    Cold approaching

    It seems like whenever im in a classroom setting and all, im my normal self in which im C+F, make people laugh, etc. However, when its on the street, in my college, etc, I have a hard time going up to a woman. whats the best way 4 me to break the fear of cold approaching?
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    Messed up really bad today

    Today around noon, I wuz gettin somethin to drink and I see this HB right in front of me, I had more than a minute to say somethin but I just couldn't get anythin out of my mouth. You could say I was nervous or something, now lookin back I messed up badly. The problem is that I have so many...
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