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Anyone ever date a girl slightly taller than them? Just curious. I am 5'7 and this girl I am kinda seeing is 5'8. Different than all the girls ive ever dated but shes a pretty gal.

Guess I know what to do next time. Though to be fair, I've always did my same approach to online chicks and it landed up getting me laid after a few dates. Only thing is they would usually reply back sooner. Guess there is no hope with THIS ONE. Thanks for the advice.

Hello there DJs. Just in need of a little advice. Last Wednesday I went out with an HB7-8, Betty Paige looking gal. Was talking to her for a few weeks on OKCupid prior to meeting her. I picked her up and took her to a really classy bar. We connected really well, no silent/awkward moments...

Los Angeles, California. San Gabriel. Hey Jair we should grab a drink sometime and talk about our BPD ex's! Lol

You didn't see my old thread. SHE IS BPD. She told me herself that she was diagnosed in high school but ignored the psychiatrist and walked out. This was in the honeymoon phase and I didn't pay much attention to it. Big mistake for me. And bro, I AM spinning plates and in great shape cause I...

Mine was a waif. No real home/job but living with different shady types of people. Has family she could stay with but would only stay for a short time before she was out on the streets again. One thing I will say though is she was a great artist and intelligent. But she always did seem off and...

You said you white knighted her. So did you show up and see her and just not have sex? Btw thanks for responding man. I've seen you around here with really good insight into BPD. Still haven't heard a peep from her. But I am actually feeling a bit better today. I am in the best shape of my life...

Don't do it brotha. I just had recycled sex with a cluster B. Like you, I avoided her like the plague. But I gave in. Started talking to her again. We hung out a couple nights ago and it lead into sex. I have yet to hear from her. I won't lie, some feelings came back and now I'm working on...

So after a few months of me going NC after our breakup back in June and frequent attempts on her part trying to get me to talk, I started to slowly talk to her little by little. Even denied to see her a few times. I gave in a few days ago, hung out, and it lead to sex. I really don't know why...

Christoff, you are exactly on point with the mirror thing. I remember she would jokingly tell me she cyberstalked me (I met her online, I added her on facebook randomly cause of mutual interests..look where it led to, lol) I am doing great so far. Spinning plates/working out and all. She has...

Be glad she doesn't hoover bro. A little update on me, mine hoovered yesterday. Texted me 4 times. First asking for a phone charger because she was in a motel and was about to relapse with drugs and needed someone to talk to. Another saying she found a charger and shes sorry for bugging. Then...

she WAS diagnosed with it. Read my original post. Anyways, thanks I guess.

got ANOTHER hoover today. She texted me saying she was at a motel a few blocks away, even gave me the room number. Saying if I had a phone charger she could use and that she was on the verge of relapsing(she use to do meth) and could use someone to talk to. Idk why this hoover took a lot more...

Yeah I am remaining strong Mauser. Haven't responded back nor has she texted me again, yet. Thanks so much. I always see you on threads about BPD and you definitely are a great help, brother:)

I think you should be glad she never hit you up soon after, cause I've heard many people that went back into it and they came out worse than before. I am pretty sure i'll get another text from my ex bpd later down the line. But I am going to remain strong.

My ex BPD just contacted me last week (A month after our 'final' break up and no NC, even when I got into it big with her and she said she'd never talk to me again). But low and behold, she texted me saying she still dreams about me. Honestly, who knows and who cares with these types? It's...

Just a little update, brothers. 1 month out/NC and I just got a text from her a couple nights ago saying "I know you don't want to speak to me but please stay out of my dreams, would ya?" I didn't reply...Hoover attempt?

Thanks buddy This will be very good for people who never had a BPD rs. Even though I am 1 month NC out of my relationship with a BPD ex(yes, she had BPD. not just saying it) this is still a good read and pretty much described her word for word. Thanks!

Shes BPD brotha, I just got out of a BPD relationship myself. 3 weeks NC so far. Your story is similar to mine in some ways (my BPD ex gave me an amazing BJ and swallowed too, the ONLY girl who's ever did that for me out of many BJs I got from girls. She was down for literally anything in bed)...

I know how you feel Hey man, I too am trying to recover from a recent BPD ex. I am a little over 2 weeks NC now(I heard my ex has a new bf already..figures) and I am slowly feeling better. But your ex girls actions were very similar to my ex...Same thing with the putting me on a pedestal at...