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Hi guys I wonder if any one has been in this predicament as me before. I'm currently dating this girl. Shes great to be around with and its been awhile since i've met someone i find attractive. Being a faithful follower of sosuave for more than a few years, i've incorporated the...

Hi guys I'm a 31 yrs old and currently dating a 23 yr old chick for about 3 mths. Sex has been good and she's shown high level of interest so far. we were exchanging emails a few days back. somehow something i wrote got to her and she replied with a rather snappy email. If it was me a...

My G/f of 10 months text me this question today"Can you tell me why you like me?" Its weird becos she hardly or never ask me stuff like this. What would be the best way to reply? Be honest abt it?

Last week, me and my gf went on a trip. We have been together for 9mths. For whatever reason, she would start giving me attitude. Like talking to me in a very irritated tone. I didnt want to start a quarrel so i told her nicely that i dont appreciate being spoken to like that. And after...

I've been with my gf for abt 5mths now. And like all other LTR, there are bound to be petty fights and crap. For me, if i were the one starting the pettiness, i will tell myself to stop it and clear up the mess. For her, she will say things like I wont waste my time doing this again or...

I've been in a LTR with this girl for abt 3-4 mths now. Over the past few months i've noticed that shes not very affectionate and expressive. I usually find myself initiating kisses and sex. She will respond but hardly makes the first move. If i remember correctly, there was only once when she...

I'm just curious, for you guys in a LTR, do you find it necessary for both parties to inform the other person of his/her whereabouts? I'm not talking abt taking a toilet break or running off to the store to get something. But if she has plans afterwork or during the weekend. Somehow with...

Hi Guys I've been in an excluisive relationship for a few months now. thnigs are moving along fine, sex is great and we enjoy each other's company. However i'm not sure if some of my doings are a reflection of my insecurities. 1.) I've read here that its good to have some minimal social...

I'm just wondering how much verbal assurance do you give a girl you're dating. This girl and i have both confessed our likings for each other but her's was earlier than mine. Then some **** happen and i felt she was not to be taken seriously. She asked me a couple of times if a genuienly...

Alright guys, i know there's a thread abt blown come ons, but how many of you acutally screwed up a chance to get some booty because of something you said or did? And what lesson did you learn from it. I'm sure this would prove valuable for all here. Here's mine.. I had some sought of a ONS...

What started out as a quiet evening for me ended with me freaking pissed. I was chilling at home when this girl that i've been so called dating, slept with asked me to have an early night. So i just said it was still early for bed. Then she proceded to ask abt some job which she told me abt...

I've been dating this girl for a few months had sex once and she got flakey after that. We sort of stayed in contact on a as and when basis. Today she called me made some small talk and dropped the bomb "Do yo consider yourself a player?" Frankly speaking i do not know how to answer a...

Hi Guys i posted this in the main but i think i'll get a better understanding here. I'm 28 and i recently met this girl whose 24. I'm sure her interest lvl is high when we first met, with Kino and all. She text me everyday and calles me often. On that night we met, she said that she found...

I've recently found out that my girl doesnt like me touching her in public. We are not talking abt full blown petting or groping here. But simple couple stuff. At first i thought that she's still pretty shy or whatever **** but its just her. Its weird cos my exes usually cant take their hands...

Been dating this girl for awhile and yesterday, she wanted an exclusive relationship. I told her that it was worth a try. We did some chatting on the phone and i asked her what was the thing that she fears most when opening her heart to a guy? She mentioned that it was the fact that she might...

Happened to chance upon this website www.laddertheory.com Somehow the author is pretty spot on abt female and male attraction. What do you guys think?

Hi During the past few months, i've been meeting quite a number of women and going on dates. However, it seems that most times, its always me asking to meet up. I can understand if its the 1st or 2nd date, but is it a lack of interest if i'm still inititating the after the 2nd date...

Hi guys, I met this girl through a good friend a few weeks back. Shes back for a holiday before going back to further her studies. We went clubbing and i danced with her. Lots of bumping and grinding. I found out later that she has a boyfriend in the same Uni as her but it seems that its...

Whats up guys. I sure many of you hang out at clubs. What i would like to know is what is a good way for a DJ to socialize at such places? I met up with a friend yesterday and he was with a group of friends. All new faces to me. A couple of hot babes too. The loud music makes it really...