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  1. thatfeel

    What do you guys do when...

    ...you meet up with a girl and she's completely smitten with you. Let's pretend for the sake of this thread that the girl is pretty decent, shares similar interests/qualities, and gives you the mike adriano treatment on the D. Literally matched with her on an app, we chatted via a discord call...
  2. thatfeel

    A very quick, brief rant.

    Look, I'm no COVID-19 denier, but god am I sick of women using it as an excuse to not meet up. I work in the medical industry as IT support and have been in 3 covid confirmed patient rooms, wearing full PPE of course, so I just don't buy it. But with women, you just know that they're using it as...
  3. thatfeel

    Sister died unexpectedly and mom expects me to make payments on her mortgage with money she left me.

    so about a month ago, my sister passed away unexpectedly. she left me her checking account, not a huge amount, but still an okay amount. she had a mortgage on her house and my mom is in the process of trying to sell it. the weird thing is, my mom is asking me to use the money i got to make the...
  4. thatfeel

    What's the next step?

    Gonna keep this short and sweet, got the date, we shared drinks, got the kiss and hug at the end, and didn't hear from her the next day with a "I had a good time :)". I'm just going to give her the benefit of the doubt on that and say it just isn't in her MO cause I know she had a good time...
  5. thatfeel

    If I want to abandon the office culture and work in a trade how would I get started?

    I am not sure what all qualifies as a trade but in my mind I am thinking of: electrician, welder, HVAC, contracting, etc. If there are more please let me know. I have a B.S. in IT (from an actual uni not a private trade school) but honestly I'm fvcking sick of it. The office life, the cubicle...
  6. thatfeel

    The fake news ads on the site and forum.

    Look, I get it, ad revenue helps support the site. But can it not be ACTUAL fake news/fake ads?
  7. thatfeel

    So sick of girls that get wet feet after the first few fvcks.

    How do you guys handle girls that fvck you a few times casually then start getting flaky cause they start spewing things like "there's more to me than just my vagina"?
  8. thatfeel

    Anyone here ever gotten a nose job? Did it make a huge difference?

    I'm going to visit an otolaryngologist later today to have my nose looked at for reconstructive surgery since it always feels like my breathing is suboptimal and also because my nose always feels clogged. However, I was going to inquire about plastic surgery as well. I've always been generally...
  9. thatfeel

    Thought you guys might chuckle and scoff at this.

    http://www.houstonpress.com/arts/operation-no-pay-may-a-houston-woman-attempts-31-dates-in-31-days-8437207
  10. thatfeel

    An employer I accepted an offer with is being unflexible with the start date. What would you do?

    I'll try to be as brief as possible here. The company I interviewed for posted a job opening around mid-July. I interviewed with them on August 13th. Had another interview sometime early September. When they called to offer me the position I said give me a day to decide(aka weigh the benefits...
  11. thatfeel

    When a girl is "helping you" what do you do, also, activities.

    I want to begin actually with the latter part of my title. You guys all advocate for saving "LTR" kind of dates(concerts, traveling, big ticket events, etc)for actual committed girlfriends and to keep it simple AF with the plates until they want you to commit(if you agree to it). Let's say a...
  12. thatfeel

    How to handle with a girl doesn't counter at all in two situations.

    Had three decent dates with a girl, you can check out my other threads if you're curious, at any rate. last time I saw her was Saturday, and I want to see her again. I've kept it incredibly casual and succinct in my contact. Last night I texted her if she was available tomorrow night(that would...
  13. thatfeel

    I'm having a severe existential as well as an identity crisis.

    I guess it could be somewhat relatable to the identity crisis post on the rational male, but not entirely. I just turned 25 and I feel...lost. I'm constantly questioning myself. I don't know who I am or what my "self" is or what I am supposed to be doing with my time and my life. I genuinely...
  14. thatfeel

    My car got towed and I feel really guilty for taking her money. Is there any reason to even give it

    So after deciding how to handle last night: original thread:https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3ne1l1/girl_asked_to_push_date_back_then_asks_to/ I ended up hanging with the girl and the friend. It worked out nicely as I was able to isolate her to her place. We had sex, etc. After...
  15. thatfeel

    Girl asked to push date back, then asks to reschedule. Do I maintain my frame?

    Aight so, this girl I know from work, we went out twice, pretty decent dates. Tonight was the night I was hoping...for the escalation. Earlier we were going to go to dinner at 6. She asked "Can we push it to 8?". I said yes to this because when I asked her out on this date a few days before she...
  16. thatfeel

    Are girls worth spending the money on in the early stages?

    Let's say you're on your third date or whatever. The first was a really awesome meet up at a bar, she covered my tab no questions asked. Second date was fine, dinner and a movie, typical but it's a week day and I work. I got dinner she got the movie. The third date I'm really contemplating...
  17. thatfeel

    I initially planned to accept a job but I let my ego get hurt and now im not so sure.

    I applied for a position at an institution that's basically the same as the one I currently hold at my job now and they offered me the job today. They low balled me and then when I said I'd need the weekend to consider they called me back and just matched what I was currently making instead...
  18. thatfeel

    Apartment rent, how do you guys manage?

    I don't own a home yet but would like to in the next 5 years. I've lived in a couple of houses and apartments renting because I wasn't sure if I'd stay in the area but it looks like I'm going to be. For those of you who have extensive experience or are still living in apartments, how the hell...
  19. thatfeel

    Ughh...but I don't want to do anything.

    I admit, I totally failed this girl's **** test. Basically, we met, I set up a meet and greet at a local place near me that has killer happy hour, we had drinks for a few hours. I suggest we meet at her place later, she's cool with it. I'm like okay awesome. As I'm at home taking care of my...
  20. thatfeel

    I can't decide if I should move out of my girlfriend's house.

    So, I'm 24 and she's 25 and I know I'm going to get a lot of flack and automatic "dude, what are you waiting for" comments with the age difference but I'm hoping some people can look past that. Basically, I was apartment hunting for a while because I was sure my girlfriend wanted me out, and...
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