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Whenever I go out, I try to not wear glasses so I don't portray the nerdy/intelligent persona. But, then I am not able to notice girls looking at me from a distance. But if I do wear glasses, less girls would find me physically attractive. I've tried contact lenses and they're a pain in the...

I've been watching Jordan Peterson's videos lately and he to be attractive to multiple women, but only chose one. He thinks sex is dangerous because it reaches down to the soul of an individual, it involves emotions, pregnancy, disease, and much more complicated things that we cannot fathom...

I got this girl's number after class by opening with why I noticed her, showing intent directly. Exchange a few lines to get to know her a little and then ask if she wants to grab coffee sometime. She looks back at the lecture hall, which I take as we can get to know each other from class. This...

It seems I’ve never had success with relationships, but it is something that I deep down desire. I always have unrealistic expectations for a girl even when the interaction has not progressed through the necessary steps. And I develop feelings for someone after being around them for a while even...

So this girl started liking me and wanted a relationship, but I wanted to still meet other chicks and party bc it's my last year in college. Later on I realize that I'm not about that life and would rather much prefer someone to have an intimate connection with and I realize how much of an @ss I...

I'm only 21 need some wisdom, I do not have a large enough sample size nor the experience yet, but the two girls that I have came across recently both wanted a relationship rather than just hooking up. I don't really understand how to play it so that she only wants the latter. How do you get...

Met a girl at a Thanksgiving party. Went back to my place and did stuff. Made a mistake by making food for her, talking about family, and letting her sleep over. Today we went to get lunch together and I didn't feel like I wanted to be seen with her maybe bc I don't find her as attractive as I...

So growing up I did not talk much, I preferred to stay in my room and play video games My parents divorced and I was separated from my father. I couldn't talk to my mom about my father so I just kept to myself. She really drilled in the idea that we did not have much, since we are immigrants...

So this girl that I went to class with almost everyday started liking me. But before that, her interest level seemed low. We would hang only on campus and when I asked her to do things outside of school she declined. However she did drive me home a few times after studying with me all night...

So this girl expressed a lot of interest and spent a lot of time with me. I was not able to kiss her and carry the thing forward due to a gut feeling and personal impediments which I resolved later. She starts spending less time. Her pulling away hurts me and prompts me to resolve my personal...

I just want to run this through with some people to make sure I am getting this right So my parents separated when I was five years old. Now that I am twenty, I have never really been with a girl. Recently things did not work with this one girl that I was talking to and it was going very...

After reading the DJ bible and about game, it feels like I have to fvck a lot of girls first before being able to commit to a LTR. But when have you been truly ready for a serious relationship without being tempted by other women? Do I literally have to fvck everything that moves???

When I was six or seven I came to the US and became separated from my father. Our phone calls eventually stopped and as a result, I did not have a good male role model growing up. There was not a man who I was able to emulate and learn from. I think this is the root of 90% of the problems in my...

I do not have enough experience and reference points need some help So this girl is very smart - she is going to graduate school She seems innocent said she used a lot of time "falling in love with boys" Abnormal relation with father - wants to fix his addiction problems but she can't Parents...

I put my arms around her and she said it feels good, but she has this fear of getting attached and she backed off. "I might hurt you ... you heart me .... you might leave ... I have issues ... I'm not ready for a relationship." So I let it be. One night she hugs me very tightly out which is...

So I am alone with a girl and my head just runs through all the possibilities of sex and what not. How do I get out of my head and not feel so anxious during these moments. Whenever I feel like the vibe is getting closer and closer to something happening, I get more anxious. Probably because my...

It's very hard for me to really enjoy myself in certain situations. I take life really seriously. Like at a party (college) I'm someone that stays away from the center of attention. I don't do good in group conversations. I talk to people one on one most of the time and even then it seems like...

Acne has been slowly tearing me apart these past two years. I am no longer the person that I was before. I used to be able to approach girls, but now I can't even bear make eye contact with any because I don't want them to see my face. My social life is basically gone and I chose to not go out...

This website has taught me a lot and I thank you all for that. I've realized that my true problem is being too reserved. It is more comfortable for me to not reach out or talk to someone. Right now, the thing I enjoy most is probably playing video games at home. I think this problem stems from...

Something I am still struggling with is knowing when or how much to speak with women. For example at a party, I'd talk for a bit then the girl seems uninterested and then says she's gonna go get a drink and walks away. I can't really create a good flowing conversation with them. I myself grew up...