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    Tried online dating, but girls are boring as hell/not interested

    So I've recently tried online dating and am using this Meet me app where I can get to meet people/girls nearby. I'm currently 18 btw. I messaged some hot girls nearby, usually starting with this funny pick up line that I got from reddit: "Hey girl, are you Google? Cuz you've got everything I'm...
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    Hi guys. I've just graduated. Can I still post here?

    I know I've been MIA for an entire year (my senior year to be exact) but I wanna get back into picking up :)
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    I think I'm out of my box too much...

    Is this a bad thing? I've realized that I have been like this since the start of senior year. I dance everywhere ever since and have little to no thoughts if others are watching. I shout when I get pumped up out of anything. I am more talkative in class, And I'm always open to whoever has their...
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    She says she's shy to go to homecoming...

    I finally asked this girl to homecoming. She said yes at first, but after school she told me that she's too shy and awkward, probably because of all the grinding that happens. I don't talk to her much. Should I still try to talk to her?
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    I'm planning to serenade this girl for homecoming...

    Hello bros. I know I'm not here much but I need your help. I really want to ask this girl to homecoming dance, but I fear that I don't know her well enough. We don't talk much, but she does go along with whatever I'm saying. We were working together at a school fest. I whispered to her, "I...
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    How the hell do you talk to a very introverted girl?

    This is such an annoyance to me because I've met many introverted girls that I either got rejected from or friendzoned with. Now, I've met another one. She gave me her number a month ago and now that we see each other a lot in tennis, she seems to avoid me. I had a chance to talk to her...
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    I feel hollow when talking to people...

    I do not know if this is a social anxiety problem, but its hard for me to make real deep conversations with people. Whenever I talk to someone, ANYONE, it just feels as if no connection is being built. And so most of the times I just stay quiet and do my own thing. Is this even normal? It makes...
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    This is such a noob question to ask, but...

    How exactly do you ask out a girl from your school? Where? When? What? Ive had a gf before, but we were already hugging and holding hands before it was official :( In truth, I have small amounts of DJ skills at school. Its weird to have one because you will always see the girls that rejected...
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    Its been a while... I'm back brooos!

    Hello my fellow DJs! I don't know if you remember me but I was here until 4 months ago. I decided to quit girls for a bit so I can learn to dance. I gave more focus to dancing(popping, dubstep dancing, etc) and I have dramatically improve since my start 6 months ago. I practice by myself and I...
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    Need TONS of advice on asking girls on dates...

    I have created a giant web of connection with cute girls at my school. I typically walk around the school lonely and i talk to any of them when i see one. Its not a serious relationship though, my connection with most of them is just to flirt with. I dont know why I did this, and now I feel like...
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    facial expressions

    I just notice that I make weird facial expressions when Im talking to people. I think this must have came from my past culture before I came here in the US. Anyways, I noticed that when i talk I tend to stretch my mouth out, and when i smile, my upper gum shows up, which are unattractive. I...
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    how do u keep a text conversation going?

    I really need to improve on this. Its really difficult for me to think of what to talk about. Im not a very socialized person however i do love to have fun without thinking much of other's opinions. Im also very new at texting.
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    A New View of Myself

    A couple of minutes ago, I was reminiscing about this perfect 10 i know i cant have. I am absolutely sure she's a perfect ten, but she is currently enjoying a relationship. I then feel a bit hurt that I cant have this girl , not only because a 10 is extremely rare, but also because we had...
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    Journal #2: Another Start

    after not having much to say on the past couple of months. I am very rusty and ive completely given up on my 1st journal. I have not pickd up in months. One good thing is tjat i finally have a phone :) I've gotten a few numbers and im quite content. However, i just realized that I'm introvert...
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    afc girls?!?!

    I dont know how to word it out, but I've noticed that out of all the girls I talk to at school, there are those girls who are just plain innocent or just plain socially retarded lol. I know that they are not playing it safe because I know that these girls are inexperienced. They are not very...
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    What if you are a phoneless young DJ?

    I've done plenty of picking up and talking to women--outside and mostly at school-- and had great convos with them. However, I can't quite get the relationship deeper because of my lack of a phone. I'm still a teenager living with my parents and im too busy with school to get a job. My parents...
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    I'm a 16 years old HS junior who wants to learn the game.

    In the past days, I have just learned that PUAs exist and their methods really work. They are effective, therefore I'd like to learn from the experienced members of this forum. Ive had one GF, who left me shortly, and since i dont socialize that much, I have a very weak game. I've looked for...
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