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Good evening, gentlemen! Re-discovered this fine site after catching some hard one-itis for the first time in a LONG time, and thought "now what would the old Rhythmic do?" he'd come here and browse! Long story short, I met a girl online, we chatted for a while until it become convenient for...

Hi guys. Haven't posted on here in probably... 3 years? Learned a lot from here in the early days, obviously the breakup guide helped a lot at strategic times, and some of the articles are golden. But I thought of you guys tonight. I have a girlfriend. She's a solid 6/7 in looks, but a 10 in...

Hi SS, it's been a while! In a great place at the minute - been slaying online game for numbers, dates and what not and am generally spinning the most plates I ever have at once. There's one girl who I care about more than the others - we've known each other for a few years, we live far...

I've managed to avoid going to weddings until now. Something about them just doesn't rub well with me, so I normally make other arrangements specifically to avoid them. Finally the time's come when I have to attend one! There is gonna be a SMOKING hot girl there who I haven't seen for a good...

Long story short (hate typing on my phone!) 1. Went out last night for work drinks. 2. Was chatting to a girl from work. Then, bumped into an old FWB, got talking, ended up leaving early and taking her back to the hotel. 3. Woke up this morning to a message from the girl from work "hey, where...

So I'm going to a bar/club tonight, sort of a rock venue, with some work friends. In the hotel now having a sneaky G&T and pondering... Do I rock up in my suit from work, or my black jeans and vest? What do you guys think either of these sets of attire says to women? I know, I know...

Either pub or club, general night time activity. Do you buy them drinks? What sort of message do you think that sends? Will you open by offering them a drink? Or suggest that after a while? Or if you're just waiting to be served and there's a HB next to you waiting, will you offer then? I...

Any thoughts on how to shrink one's ego? Note that ego is separate from confidence - I'm seeing confidence as self-belief, and ego as the outward projection of that self-belief. How to generally be more humble?

Hi there, gentlemen and rogues of SoSuave. I'm wondering what each of you guys are trying to achieve. What is your current situation with women, and how do you see your situation in, say, 5 years? What do you really, honestly WANT? I'm hoping some of you will leave pretence out of this...

So last night I got a message on my phone: "Well well well, long time no speak, how are you?! x" I replied: Who is this? I don't have your number. Got back: "Guessssssss rhythmic :)" Replied: "Give me a clue." Got back: "You gave me your number :)" Obviously female...

So a few weeks ago, I was out celebrating my birthday with some close friends, we joined up with girl A, a girl I know from a long time ago and a couple of new girls she was with. I'd already had the lecture from girl A about not bedding any of her friends, but I thought I'd have a bit of...

Do you guys drink a lot? Both in terms of frequency of nights out, and also how drunk you get on those nights out. I've been drinking a lot lately, and I'm thinking it correlates with my recent lack of success on nights out.

So I just moved to the city, and have ended up living 5 minutes' walk from an old girlfriend's place. We're still in touch, occasionally chat as friends (she has a seemingly infinite amount of really hot friends, which is a mine I plan to tap into in the near future). Her place is on the route...

Looking for a bit of feedback from any online masters. I get decent results, but I'm always open to suggestions. http://www.okcupid.com/profile/WelshDrummer

So I'm pretty comfortable being by myself - I've never been on a night out alone, though. This weekend I'm house-sitting in the back end of nowhere, no friends anywhere near. But this small town is a very short walk away. No clubs, just four or five pubs. Anyone got tips for going to these...

OK, so I put this in my journal but figure I won't get responses to that. Long story short: Been chatting to a girl from OKC, got number, organised date for this weekend. But now I have to cancel due to work, and she flies home for Christmas the day after. Any particular tips for this...

Situation: Just got out of LTR with awesome chick, due to circumstances. Left on tuesday night after getting an awesome bj and left a present... all over her face. All right. She was great; funny, on my level of conversation, damn fine to look at, loved sex and porn, great job... Man, no...

24 years old. 10 years since I lost my V plates. Still getting my ass handed to me by women! Unacceptable. What I've learned in the last year: 1. You can totally meet quality women on OKC. Met one, probably a 7, but boosted to an 8 because of awesome chemistry. First date kiss, second...