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    Game with acne and scars?

    Always find I struggle or already am at a disadvantage compared to my friends; particularly having it into my mid 20s. Docs only now finally prescribing me the strongest drug to treat it. Anyone have tips?
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    Should I continue messaging her?

    I need some level heads to speak some logic to me. I'm a well regarded and known student at a Community College I study at. There is this HB I am interested in. We're on friendly terms the chance encounters I've had with her and even borrowing a few things off her in times of need. After the...
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    Should I hit her up or just wait til I see her again?

    Things have been intensifying between me and a chick that volunteers at our local community centre. We close up together so things always end with her and me. The other night I almost kiss closed her but did not. Went from a hug to me starting to kiss her neck and she was loving it before...
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    You are doing NC right when...

    -She invites you to her birthday party only reserved for a close few -She sends you images and texts of her partying/ socialising -Tries to call you from another phone -acts awkward when you are around Of course I'm not reacting nor replying. Heck, I have a road trip planned with two dutch...
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    She has a boyfriend, did I do the right thing?

    At a party I was hosting (celebrating a special event in my life) I instantly clicked with a HB8 whom I spent escalating with that night. I kino'ed, I flirted and playfully teased all night and she responded. Dancing, she basically had her legs wrapped around my hips and arms all over me. Where...
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    Is it sometimes just luck?

    We talk on the forum about Dj's skills and confidence etc but I'm starting to think getting girls is just as much right place at the right time. I am so different to the man I use to be and much more improved. The problem though lately is that every girl I meet at partys I'm interested in are...
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    Is it beta to remain unreactive when challenged by other men?

    I haven't seen this group of friends in many years and definately did not have fun at tonights party. No HB's I was interested so I just chatted up random girls whom seemed cool. Yet a mate whom I use to be close to kept hassling me that night. He got physical and pushy trying to pry out what I...
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    What does a DJ do in this situation?

    Probably the first girl I started gaming since visiting this site and doing things differently. I've only known her for a few weeks in which first week I got her number and asked her out. Thing is she had a boyfriend. Didn't stop me from just having some fun I decided. Never talked about myself...
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    Friends who 'latch' onto you when you're going out?

    I have a large social circle of which I keep my friends separate. Not due to wanting to but because they are from different walks of my life. Because I do go out quite a bit, I've found my friends from different circles trying to 'tag' along to other events I go to. To be honest it is getting...
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    NC'd Oneitis wants to catch up? Whats do I do?

    As you guys know, I NC'd my oneitis (HB 9.5) as she screwed me up pretty badly. During this time she has always been the one to contact me with inviting me out to parties and gatherings etc etc. I've declined as she stood me up once and never got back to me about a date (in my AFC days). Now...
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    When is it too late to number close?

    There's a new girl at the supermarket store that I work at that has caught my eye. We've only worked a few shifts the last couple weeks together and I feel I keep missing my opportunity to get her number. First time we had a chat I guess I forgot because I was more interested in getting to know...
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    The hurdles of self improvement?

    As some of you guys know oneitis destroyed me but has made me a better person as I realised my problems and turned a new leaf. It's been a few weeks since and things are going good. My mates particularly the girls are really noticing the change in my physique (positively) and really liking it if...
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    Is this an AFC move?

    I developed oneitis to my closest friend and I don't think she feels the same way. Although she is one of the most busiest girls you'd know, I'm sure she would of let me know about dinner plans when I asked her a while ago. So this all hit me and I went NC so that I could get over her, signed...
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    How to knock the pedastal from under girls?

    No excuses, I know I blame myself as I was always the one initiating everything with girls from friends to those I'm keen on. Since being on this site, I've treated girls I've met differently and it's such a vast difference. They are the ones who initiate now and it's always give and take and...
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    Asked her out too casually?

    Thanks all, every little thought you guys have put have been great insight for me honestly! So I asked her out and made it sound too casual as if it was 2 friends whom had not caught up in awhile. She said yes though. Anyway how can I fix this and show her that this is an actual date? Cheers.
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