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    Is this a salvgeable situation? Need some insight, fast.

    I knew this moment will come. I'll get straight to the point. She is a female, 24. We were friends for some time, then hooked up in late January. It was her idea, she developed feelings for me. She had a boyfriend for 3 years. I knew him also. She couldn't resist her urges and approached me...
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    How would you do it?

    This story happend to me last night. I'll try to be as detailed as possible cause I desperately need some directions. And balls. But first is first. Me and 3 mates went to the club, more like a bar with live music. We took place at the bar, ordered drinks and kept having fun. An hour or two...
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    Using new social skills

    on chicks you know from your 'AFC' days. How do you do it? It just doesn't seem right. For example using 'kino'. I know this girl for a couple of years. I'm pretty sure she wants me, but not having balls to make a move for a long time certainly did its damage. My image is slightly broken. If...
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    Do you have a lighter?

    When a hb asks you this, how to use it as a beginning of social interaction?
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    Help me gain 20 kg!

    It has been over a year since I entered in a gym for the 1st time. I was very skinny. Overall I wasn't consistent, had monthly breaks and never ever had a diet. Yesterday I took measures and I was shocked. Almost no weight gain at all. So I guess I should take a serious approach, quit...
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    Happy birthday Nikola Tesla

    How much do you know about this great scientist? It was a coincidence, but last night I was hearing 48 laws of power. Then I heard the guy was mentioning Tesla, my countryman, on a law 'Always take credit'. It was interesting to hear how he got ripped off for his credit for his enormous...
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    I’m The Only Thing I’m Afraid Of

    Interesting read. I am. That’s it, that’s all. Me, myself and I, the only thing that’s stopping this guy from being everything he wants to be. How sad, yet how true. I’m my own worst enemy. I really am the only thing I’m afraid of. But what is it that makes me fear me? Am I afraid...
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    Approach line I thought of...

    While sharing prolonged eye-contact with an attractive female and your gut is telling you something is up, you go ahead and wink something like this: http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw4n42Zzoj1r20idto1_250.gif If the reaction is positive, you approach playfully and ask - Are my seduction...
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    How important are friends?

    There were times in my life when I was alone. My old friends friends had been abandoned me and school time was over. I remember now how lost and desperate I was, since I had no one to go out with that summer. I would sit around and bust my balls thinking how others are having fun and I'm at home...
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    Why aren't you getting any?

    I'll tell you why. I'm sure there's enough of us who have been following SS for a while. We are thinking 'boy, haven't I learned a lot here, I've changed so much'. Yes we did. We changed the way we think, but did we change the way we act? Did we put ourselves there and try things? I...
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    Why SS rocks - answer to the newbies

    I FEEL the need to compare the chump from few months ago with this guy, the new me. Last three days were crucial. I don't know what happened, but I finally left 'the matrix'. It doesn't mean I got laid unfortunately. But what I have accomplished is much greater...I found myself. Confidence...
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    Should I be direct?

    I met a chick on classes last week, today I ran into her and jumped saying 'how are you 'name'' and we chatted about some random college stuff. Anyway it's obvious she's receptive and likes my company, so I guess it's time to strike before I mess up by waiting...like I usually do. I'm...
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    Shattered reality

    long read, belongs to anything else but I need some dj wisdom. The worst night in my life. My retard father with who I've never been close with is an occasional gambler. On every 3 months he goes and fvcks up his monthly paycheck and makes financial situation of my family even worse. It's...
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    Nicholas's journey...Let the game begin!

    Mirror...Every single day I take look at it. Did that this morning, guess I'll do it tomorrow. But tonight, I'm standing in front of it. Oh no mister, this time I'm not checking my hair or teeth. This time I'm looking directly into my eyes, exploring the depths of my soul. The time has come to...
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    Inviting

    Hey guys, my 1st post, be gentle. Is it better, when asking a girl out, to use text or call? I'm doubting this because I've never talked to her by phone, and we know each other for a while (like 6 months). I'm worrying about spooking her. I'm thinking of a call, but I could use your...
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