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    Texting with a russian woman

    This is a continuation of my last post- Met a russian woman, french kissing first date, very passionate interaction overall, then super lackster texting. She has a busy career, yes, but its literally a phrase a two or a day and one of them always just being ‘im home, goodnight’. Me being an...
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    How to break it off gracefully?

    i hooked up with this girl on the second date. she got quite taken with me, i think- holding hands the morning after, talking about relationships, etc. and i don't want that so i wanna break it off with her. how do i do it so that her feelings are least hurt? would her feelings be hurt at all?
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    why the disappearance?

    n/m.. she replied. its a go :)
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    why the disappearance?

    I had this happen twice now within a year, almost same scenario, both very frustrating. This is the recent one. The other girl previous to it was way more flirty, with skinship, but rest are about the same. Met this girl for a drink and there was a solid connection. She seemed like a down to...
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    is how much it my call?

    oh so its usually the guy who insists on going inside? (no pun intended) she did walk me all the way to her doorsteps (i didn't know where she lived. cuz last time we were dropped off there in taxi) and we sat for almost 2 hrs... but the chemistry was lousy. she's upper middle class british...
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    is how much it my call?

    i went on a second date with this girl. first date i was invited to her place, we made out, then cuddled, spending the night there. the second date we were not on point. we were both tired and the attraction was lessened on her part mainly because i was looking and feeling like crap. this...
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    what the freak? the new tinder etiquette?

    2 drinks and 4 hrs of my time and you weren't even average looking. and then not even a thank you?!. i'm still pissed off about it. from now on it's gonna be strictly lunch hour coffee for first meet for me. live and learn.
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    Sick of the obsession with perfect 10 women on this forum

    go with europians. their 5 is easily 7, 8 in the states and they're not nearly as stuck up as the 5s of the states. i remember long ago my coworker, who was just a silly looking dude, started dating this gorgeous europian chick, and everyone was flabbergasted. how the hell did this chubby belly...
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    Girl with boyfriend keeps messaging me

    ahahah i had this happen twice in recent years, both coworkers. oh and my ex-fiance used to do this too when i started to take her for granted. i saw it from the corner of my eyes but didn't care. she wasn't gonna leave me and we both knew it. she was just killing time. so don't fall for this...
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    She wants to friend zone me after I waited too long to make a move

    i've been there before many years ago. it's like a fking that you'll never get to unwrap. ...i mean candy. xD a candy in your hand that you can never eat. even if she wants to fk u just as bad, there's that wall of friendship that's just super awkward to break. oh, and she already had a...
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    what the freak? the new tinder etiquette?

    lol that **** is crazy. maybe i have it easy then bingo, i think you hit the nail in the head there. i did rant about my tinder adventures (only the crazy ones that i didnt hook up with) where as her profile said 'friendship only' blah blah. yeah right, as if you're gonna be looking only for...
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    what the freak? the new tinder etiquette?

    i just experienced the biggest rejection ever. or this is the new way people tinder and i should get on the program. this girl unmatched me on tinder right after meeting me. i mean RIGHT after we part ways after couple of drinks. now i'm not a bad looking guy. i don't think. been told the...
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    setting up dates- protocols?

    im just wondering if this is the norm. for me it's always the girls telling me we should meet again and setting up the next date. this always comes up during conversation on first meetings and i'm never the one to initiate the talk. of course it's always in a respectful and friendly way the...
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    Why did she cry?

    i met this girl on tinder for a one night stand, sex is incredible, turns into two, three night stands. i wanna make it more permanent, a relationship, so i ask her out, she refuses, we still meet for you-know-what, then on the fifth and the last time, i let it be known in so many words that i...
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    did i show no effort?

    i was hoping for a serious insight.
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