thebiglimp
Don Juan
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I had this happen twice now within a year, almost same scenario, both very frustrating.
This is the recent one. The other girl previous to it was way more flirty, with skinship, but rest are about the same.
Met this girl for a drink and there was a solid connection. She seemed like a down to earth girl so i didnt try anything physical but at the end she did initiate hugging, and right after we parted she messeges me that she's had wonderful time, would love to get together again.
So the next day we text back and forth setting up the next date, and at the end after i ask if the next weekend is ok, there is no reply. Almost 24 hrs later still no reply. I know not to be clingly, could be other factors blah blah, but these days and age, especially for people my city? Its already abnormal to not check the phone every 30 freakin min.
So, is it
A) did she play me to see how willing i was to see her again?
B) did i make her back off because i was too aggressive with setting up the date?
This is the recent one. The other girl previous to it was way more flirty, with skinship, but rest are about the same.
Met this girl for a drink and there was a solid connection. She seemed like a down to earth girl so i didnt try anything physical but at the end she did initiate hugging, and right after we parted she messeges me that she's had wonderful time, would love to get together again.
So the next day we text back and forth setting up the next date, and at the end after i ask if the next weekend is ok, there is no reply. Almost 24 hrs later still no reply. I know not to be clingly, could be other factors blah blah, but these days and age, especially for people my city? Its already abnormal to not check the phone every 30 freakin min.
So, is it
A) did she play me to see how willing i was to see her again?
B) did i make her back off because i was too aggressive with setting up the date?