I've seen no evidence this is the case with OP. Based on what he's said here he seems socially normal. He just hasn't gotten the time of day from women because they are busy chasing 3 percenters.
I'd say I'm socially quite normal, but introverted. I have never liked chasing women but instead always been focused on career, sports, self-development. Women have given me quite a lot of attention over the years but it's usually always those women whom I'm not interested in. I did have relationships when I was younger, even one LTR where the girl was very much into me.
I think a lot of people just don't really talk about this stuff because keyboard warriors will talk about how much ass they get. Or some chick will gaslight you and say "The problem is definitely YOU". Also, the truth is there isn't much to talk about once you realize women are not that interested in us. All you can really do is live your life in a way where women aren't a significant part of your life, and there are many ways to achieve that.
Yes. I recently had a conversation about this topic with a family member because there has been an epidemic of single women in my family (over half of my female cousins and siblings are single at 30 or 40, whereas all the males in the family are married except for me). We had a really open and honest talk and the conclusion was that most women don't really like men that much and prefer to be single by choice.
At work, this phenomenon is apparent with an increasing number of divorces and single women in their 30s and 40s. The women don't seem sad about it, quite the opposite, most of them are very motivated by their career. The only logical conclusion is that they want to do this, they want to be single.
Now, I still think that there are women who enjoy the company of men, women who like sex and intimacy a lot, but it is probably the minority of all women. I have been in a relationship like that so I know it exists. I think those women choose a man early in their life and then stay with them long-term, often the rest of their lives.