Curious about this subject, cause recently, I've meet a extreme catholic girl who doesn't want to do it before marriage.
It's been the most easy, simple, flowing development with her than I've had with any other girls.... No test, feminin, knows what she want, witted (she replies to joke etc...) ... she's been more and more open to physical intimacy with times but she always have a control at the end but myself recently my hormones got the best out of me and for her I got close to the red line.
So she asked to reframe our relation because she want to continue but by respecting her boundaries and finding ways to do it.
Everytime I've meet her, the physical got more intense, the fun (dating part better)... but she mentionned we still ''quasi-stranger''
It's the first time however, someone bring that religion/belief card like that and follow it (note: we known each other 4 months so might still be short for her).... maybe I was too fast and she still some has insecurities but she want to discuss them,
Funny, how can it be a fufilling relation if we don't fully in it.... and if commitments are made... how to make sure there is still happiness after it (like no sech deprivation lol married or not)
Note: She knows I dont have her values, control over it etc... I've told her... she does have issues and are afraid of not making ''things'' perfect (told her that)