"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Latest activity
-
Foe, chalk this up as a lesson learned and be grateful. You say this: "Shes non commital, wants to maintain her independance and "just... -
Consider the sour taste a really inexpensive wake up call. You caught feels not her. Find the good sense to walk away because you chose...
-
OP already knows the truth. He is just mad because the man telling him made him face a reality he doesn't want to
-
MUnknown member reacted to The Duke's post in the thread Swallowing the Hard Truth: Most Women Want the Top 10–20% of Men with
Like.
The top men should get the top women. Too many have grown up on participation trophies. Too many have been told they can have anything... -
MUnknown member reacted to Poonstra's post in the thread Swallowing the Hard Truth: Most Women Want the Top 10–20% of Men with Like.
Top 20% is best one out of five. Hold a steady job, be somewhat in shape and be able hold a somewhat interesting conversation and you're...
-
MStories this lopsided almost always have more than is originally disclosed.
-
MFirst of all, you're just as toxic, playing the same circular game she is. I get this impression though that you really love this woman...
-
LI have bipolar too. I think that answers a lot of your questions. We tend to get super anxious and worked up. Sit with that and do some...
-
Travel memoir21 replied to the thread Is this dude a chump when it comes to relationships?.lol…so you’re saying you can’t be a good Christian man and be confident, suave and manly at the same time? I highly disagree. -
Divorced w 3 replied to the thread Advice Needed.I have bipolar too. I think that answers a lot of your questions. We tend to get super anxious and worked up. Sit with that and do some... -
Travel memoir21 reacted to Mike32ct's post in the thread Is this dude a chump when it comes to relationships? with Like.
Some nice guys “overcorrect.” It’s not uncommon. Sometimes they have a father (or brother or other male figure) who was a player/bad...
-
Stories this lopsided almost always have more than is originally disclosed. -
Llp12468 replied to the thread Advice Needed.Final thing I would say is that she understands me having grown up with a mom and sister that have bipolar. She also supports me in my...
-
Llp12468 replied to the thread Advice Needed.I do have a lot of love for her. We originally met at work remotely and supported eachother on a project then built a bond from there...
-
BBackInTheGame78 replied to the thread Advice Needed.They all start with a man that has no other options, which is the bigger problem. Scarcity means you try to do anything to hold onto...