Paper Crane
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 6, 2021
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- Age
- 30
I'm down to help anyone out with dating, zoom calls/ one on one coaching .. Not looking to charge anything as I don't really need the money. I just want to offer advice as someone who went from 1-2 plates and sex twice a month to having daily sex.. Even though as of a week or so I haven't been having daily sex, I learned how to manage better after finding out my "main" was having sex with another dude. In the past while I wasn't bothered by it as much with girls I didn't care for as much due to them not being as hot, I"m surprised at how I pulled through this time and managed to have her still come back to me. (I slept with her twice after over reacting and creating a scene about a situation)
Throughout my life I always had game. I never really found it hard to get laid.. I just had issues keeping girls around and having multiple plates. I think I'm a lot better at that now and kind of figured out how to balance it all. Through having lots of girls leave my life in the past, I had some insecurity, but overcame all that sht in the past few years by just focusing on nothing else but having sex with women.1
Best of all I'm not your "Chad" type, and still getting quality ****. (I only do 7's or better). What's better than a Latino/Asian mixed race minority who's only 170 lbs and 5'9" to improve your game with women or share some advice/experience/stories that might help you reshape and reprogram your mindset?
1. The major thing that changed my game with women: I literally stopped trying to get to know girls, care about their emotions, how their day or week went, what their background was, or hanging otu with them, or going out to cool places, or showing them a "fun time" and started to think solely about what I wanted to do to them in bed and executing on it. -- As I got better at formulating ways to get them in bed and make moves and Please them where it counts.. -- (At first I had not cared about their pleasure but my own but it changed when I Realized what kept them from being "return customers") , I started to get better at finding and gauging whether a girl was DTF. The strangest thing happened after about a year and a half-- I noticed that i started attracting more and more slutty girls.. and started caring less and less about their experiences and more about what they were like in bed. ---- Fast forward to 2020, where I met a buncha bottle service girls. Amazingly hot girls at the hottest club in my city.. I got to chatting with some, secured some social media at first, started helping some with graphics services and photo editing, became cool wiht one, then more , started running into them more often, top of this year, ended up dating the hottest one out the group.. Just imagine how i felt, going from an average joe to being in the mix with models, former dancers, --going from average girls with average lifestyles, to girls who were killing it on Instagram, had onlyfans accounts, and were at a different level of sexual confidence.
And that's really what it is.. everyone is pretty much average until they're sexually confident. Being someone who gets laid often is like being in a secret society..Its like you dont know till you know.. What I mean by htat is, yeah some of you guys have some bad ideas about women and sluts, and sex.. but once u start getting to that high level of sexual confidence, you're like that kid who used to hate ketchup but now eats it with everything.. ITs just a different vibe. and everyone notices..
Before I hit this point in my life, I used to read this forum and other forums a lot.. But I never really felt like I had anything to say.. or anything to add to the conversation besides maybe talk about my past experiences which were just boring, regular experiences.. so I would never really post anything or make an account.. But, I'm happy to see where my journey takes me next..
Throughout my life I always had game. I never really found it hard to get laid.. I just had issues keeping girls around and having multiple plates. I think I'm a lot better at that now and kind of figured out how to balance it all. Through having lots of girls leave my life in the past, I had some insecurity, but overcame all that sht in the past few years by just focusing on nothing else but having sex with women.1
Best of all I'm not your "Chad" type, and still getting quality ****. (I only do 7's or better). What's better than a Latino/Asian mixed race minority who's only 170 lbs and 5'9" to improve your game with women or share some advice/experience/stories that might help you reshape and reprogram your mindset?
1. The major thing that changed my game with women: I literally stopped trying to get to know girls, care about their emotions, how their day or week went, what their background was, or hanging otu with them, or going out to cool places, or showing them a "fun time" and started to think solely about what I wanted to do to them in bed and executing on it. -- As I got better at formulating ways to get them in bed and make moves and Please them where it counts.. -- (At first I had not cared about their pleasure but my own but it changed when I Realized what kept them from being "return customers") , I started to get better at finding and gauging whether a girl was DTF. The strangest thing happened after about a year and a half-- I noticed that i started attracting more and more slutty girls.. and started caring less and less about their experiences and more about what they were like in bed. ---- Fast forward to 2020, where I met a buncha bottle service girls. Amazingly hot girls at the hottest club in my city.. I got to chatting with some, secured some social media at first, started helping some with graphics services and photo editing, became cool wiht one, then more , started running into them more often, top of this year, ended up dating the hottest one out the group.. Just imagine how i felt, going from an average joe to being in the mix with models, former dancers, --going from average girls with average lifestyles, to girls who were killing it on Instagram, had onlyfans accounts, and were at a different level of sexual confidence.
And that's really what it is.. everyone is pretty much average until they're sexually confident. Being someone who gets laid often is like being in a secret society..Its like you dont know till you know.. What I mean by htat is, yeah some of you guys have some bad ideas about women and sluts, and sex.. but once u start getting to that high level of sexual confidence, you're like that kid who used to hate ketchup but now eats it with everything.. ITs just a different vibe. and everyone notices..
Before I hit this point in my life, I used to read this forum and other forums a lot.. But I never really felt like I had anything to say.. or anything to add to the conversation besides maybe talk about my past experiences which were just boring, regular experiences.. so I would never really post anything or make an account.. But, I'm happy to see where my journey takes me next..
