"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ZMA Question

SkillzthatKillz

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My mulit is time released and has 50mgs of Zinc (GNC Mega Men) I also take ZMA at night (30mgs) which brings me up to 80mgs of zinc per day, is this to much zinc? I have noticed taking high levels has improved my skin, but is it safe to take that much consistently?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrRuckus

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That reminds me. I had a dream right before i woke up this morning that my hot first cousin was kissing me.

I am a dirty pervert. I haven't even see this cousin for like 3 years. Thanks, ZMA. Just kidding, i see nothing wrong with cousin dating. Our culture is silly.


Most americans are deficient in zinc and magnesium, especially athletes. I sleep better taking it and i like the dreams. They aren't bad ones. Weird yes, but not bad. Might as well enjoy my time while sleeping.
 

Quiksilver

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I enjoy bad dreams, call me crazy, but dreams of any kind are a treat. Most of mine are complex and so real that I wake up and I remember doing things in the dream as if I did them in real life.
 
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