Youve got the right idea, but you're coming on too strong and aggressively.
A guy who is in high demand doesnt get MAD. Or at least he doesnt show it.
A woman who cries doesnt get kicked out of his house. A real man comforts a woman who needs it. The difference is you dont let anyone MANIPULATE you with it.
Same deal with the chick who was late.
You dont slam your phone open in anger and let her know she really ticked you off and that youre throwing a tantrum by leaving.
Instead, you dont even ANSWER the phone. Or if you have to speak with her when she shows up at your door, you flip it off casually, and say something like it was "too bad" she couldnt make it.
Leave an air of mystery, like you went off to see some other female friend.
Acting petulantly wont get you anywhere.
In these situations, its more a case of them losing points with you, rather than
they really ticked you off. This creates challenge.
I went to a lake picnic one time with a woman who had invited me there. I had to leave early, but we were supposed to grab dinner later. She called me from the lake and said
she was staying at the lake, we'd do dinner another time.
This really really pissed me off. But I didnt show it.
I quit calling her, because thats a broken date my friend.
She came crawling back later, but she had lost points.
When a girl acts in a way you dont like, they have to earn you back or
youre gone.
A guy who is in high demand doesnt get MAD. Or at least he doesnt show it.
A woman who cries doesnt get kicked out of his house. A real man comforts a woman who needs it. The difference is you dont let anyone MANIPULATE you with it.
Same deal with the chick who was late.
You dont slam your phone open in anger and let her know she really ticked you off and that youre throwing a tantrum by leaving.
Instead, you dont even ANSWER the phone. Or if you have to speak with her when she shows up at your door, you flip it off casually, and say something like it was "too bad" she couldnt make it.
Leave an air of mystery, like you went off to see some other female friend.
Acting petulantly wont get you anywhere.
In these situations, its more a case of them losing points with you, rather than
they really ticked you off. This creates challenge.
I went to a lake picnic one time with a woman who had invited me there. I had to leave early, but we were supposed to grab dinner later. She called me from the lake and said
she was staying at the lake, we'd do dinner another time.
This really really pissed me off. But I didnt show it.
I quit calling her, because thats a broken date my friend.
She came crawling back later, but she had lost points.
When a girl acts in a way you dont like, they have to earn you back or
youre gone.