Zero to 60...now what?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

DiamondNtheRough

Don Juan

Jul 15, 2011

Borknagar said:
Haha, not only what everyone else posted and sorry if someone said it and I missed it(outside in light with netbook) but how many other dudes has she ****ed from cl? You're NOT the only one, and we can all agree on that. You got a piece. Just like any one night stand you just leave it at that. Maybe hit it a few more times, but I would not expect anything more than a short term friends with benefits type thing.

thats not what she told me....lol. I'm sure you are all right. It makes me a little sad to hear it but its probably true.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.