Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Well fellas, I used to be extremely nervous when it's time to approach a girl. I made it my goal tonight to take on the "I don't give a ****" attitude and just go and do the approach... Now keep in mind that I wasn't looking for an f-close or anything, I was just concentrating on getting a positive response from the girls, anything else would just be a bonus. And I feel extremely good because it is also the first time I used all of the advice I have gotten from this site. So pay attention to your fellow DJ's.
So here's the details.
After Just entering the club.
I did feel a little nervous before I even seen a girl I would like to approach, mainly because I already knew that tonight was the night. Me and my friend, who has very serious issues with talking to girls, started the night by takin a quick stroll through the whole club to get a feel for festivities.
Then I seen a girl give me a little smile, so I sucked it up and thought "here goes nothing" and walked over to her.
I didn't have a feel for doing any dancing yet. But here is the first convo.
Me: Hey there, what's your name.
Her: My name is ***** and your's would be?
Me: They call me danny, nice meeting you, I would like to dance with you when a good song comes on.
Her: Sure sounds great.
Me: Great! I'm going to go get a drink and I'll be back in a bit.
And yes I got this from one of the articles off of this site.
And that was it for that, I could breathe again when I walked away, since I felt very nervous this first approach. Anyway I walked out of her sight and talked with my bud for a bit, and we had a drink. Then he had to go to the bathroom, and I walked back to the dance floor looking for more girls to talk to. Then I ran back into girl #1 and just said "How about my dance" and we started the grind.
I felt superb after the first dance, considering I never usually even get that much. And the next few girls I just approached out of the blue, didn't wait for eye contact or anything. I just said something short and to the point like "hey lets dance" and then the girl says "ok" and thats that. Then I had a little small talk in their ears as I was dancing.
But then later on while I was standing with my buddy, talking, I got eye contact and a smile with a very hot blonde doing the same with her friends. By this time I felt much more comfortable approaching, and I started to get a little ****y. So i turned to my friend and said "Watch and learn buddy" and left to talk to the hot blonde, definitely at least a 9.
I knew she was very interested because her eyes widened when she seen me comin over, and she immediately said "you're cute" and I was like "I knew you were going to say that, but you look very pretty yourself! What's you're name?". We then had the usual small talk, name, age, and such, then I asked her if she would like to have a dance with me, and then I took her hand and led her down to the dance floor.
I definitely didn't expect this but rather than the usual grind she faced towards me and put her arms around my shoulders, kind of like how you should while slow dancing, she said "this is so we can chat some more.". So we talked some more about like the festivities going on around us and such, and then after we were done I said "You should give me your number so we can talk again." Then I gave her my phone and she put it in there.
By this time I was very happy in that I didn't get rejected even once, which I would like to think is very good for my first time trying these things out. But I guess you can say I got somewhat of a rejection with the next girl, who made all of the first moves on ME!
Once again I was standing and talking to my bud, when I felt something rub on my ass. I thought it was somebody doing that by accident, which is pretty common there, but then I noticed that the hand more gave my ass a little rub and squeeze. So I quickly turned and noticed the girl tryin to get away after I noticed her. She got to the other side of the room and I decided to go after her.
When She seen me approaching she said "HEY!" in a nice, upbeat voice, and I said "thought you could get away with grabbing my ass didn't you!" She smiled and just started grinding away, but when I went to put my hands on her hips she grabbed them and pulled them off and said "HANDS OFF". I gave her a confused look and then she says "I have a boyfriend, but I still want to dance." So I said Ok and then I danced with her, when her friend came in from behind and started dancing behind me. I got to experience being sandwiched between two girls, which is much more than I can ask for.
After the song ended, the one with the boyfriend asked me for my name and such so she was still obviously interested. I said "let me know if things don't work out with him" and then actually ended up with the number.
I must say, out of all the girls I talked to tonight, the hottest one was the blonde one, she was also the sweetest one too, she was extremely nice, so I may have to actually give her a call, she earned it, haha.
Anyway, I was more than happy with how things went tonight at the club. And I hope this story has some valuable information to some other DJ's. Go ahead and ask me some questions because I feel like I'm definitely understanding the 'game' alot more.
By the way, my friend didn't even talk to any girls, we still have some work to do.
So here's the details.
After Just entering the club.
I did feel a little nervous before I even seen a girl I would like to approach, mainly because I already knew that tonight was the night. Me and my friend, who has very serious issues with talking to girls, started the night by takin a quick stroll through the whole club to get a feel for festivities.
Then I seen a girl give me a little smile, so I sucked it up and thought "here goes nothing" and walked over to her.
I didn't have a feel for doing any dancing yet. But here is the first convo.
Me: Hey there, what's your name.
Her: My name is ***** and your's would be?
Me: They call me danny, nice meeting you, I would like to dance with you when a good song comes on.
Her: Sure sounds great.
Me: Great! I'm going to go get a drink and I'll be back in a bit.
And yes I got this from one of the articles off of this site.
And that was it for that, I could breathe again when I walked away, since I felt very nervous this first approach. Anyway I walked out of her sight and talked with my bud for a bit, and we had a drink. Then he had to go to the bathroom, and I walked back to the dance floor looking for more girls to talk to. Then I ran back into girl #1 and just said "How about my dance" and we started the grind.
I felt superb after the first dance, considering I never usually even get that much. And the next few girls I just approached out of the blue, didn't wait for eye contact or anything. I just said something short and to the point like "hey lets dance" and then the girl says "ok" and thats that. Then I had a little small talk in their ears as I was dancing.
But then later on while I was standing with my buddy, talking, I got eye contact and a smile with a very hot blonde doing the same with her friends. By this time I felt much more comfortable approaching, and I started to get a little ****y. So i turned to my friend and said "Watch and learn buddy" and left to talk to the hot blonde, definitely at least a 9.
I knew she was very interested because her eyes widened when she seen me comin over, and she immediately said "you're cute" and I was like "I knew you were going to say that, but you look very pretty yourself! What's you're name?". We then had the usual small talk, name, age, and such, then I asked her if she would like to have a dance with me, and then I took her hand and led her down to the dance floor.
I definitely didn't expect this but rather than the usual grind she faced towards me and put her arms around my shoulders, kind of like how you should while slow dancing, she said "this is so we can chat some more.". So we talked some more about like the festivities going on around us and such, and then after we were done I said "You should give me your number so we can talk again." Then I gave her my phone and she put it in there.
By this time I was very happy in that I didn't get rejected even once, which I would like to think is very good for my first time trying these things out. But I guess you can say I got somewhat of a rejection with the next girl, who made all of the first moves on ME!
Once again I was standing and talking to my bud, when I felt something rub on my ass. I thought it was somebody doing that by accident, which is pretty common there, but then I noticed that the hand more gave my ass a little rub and squeeze. So I quickly turned and noticed the girl tryin to get away after I noticed her. She got to the other side of the room and I decided to go after her.
When She seen me approaching she said "HEY!" in a nice, upbeat voice, and I said "thought you could get away with grabbing my ass didn't you!" She smiled and just started grinding away, but when I went to put my hands on her hips she grabbed them and pulled them off and said "HANDS OFF". I gave her a confused look and then she says "I have a boyfriend, but I still want to dance." So I said Ok and then I danced with her, when her friend came in from behind and started dancing behind me. I got to experience being sandwiched between two girls, which is much more than I can ask for.
After the song ended, the one with the boyfriend asked me for my name and such so she was still obviously interested. I said "let me know if things don't work out with him" and then actually ended up with the number.
I must say, out of all the girls I talked to tonight, the hottest one was the blonde one, she was also the sweetest one too, she was extremely nice, so I may have to actually give her a call, she earned it, haha.
Anyway, I was more than happy with how things went tonight at the club. And I hope this story has some valuable information to some other DJ's. Go ahead and ask me some questions because I feel like I'm definitely understanding the 'game' alot more.
By the way, my friend didn't even talk to any girls, we still have some work to do.
