"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zero matches on Tinder???

evansblue

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Hey guys. I've been meeting plenty of women in real life, and my buddies joined tinder and I thought, why not. We have a little contest going. To see who can get the most matches. So I put up a few good pics, and a quick bio. To my surprise, I haven't gotten a match. Not a single one. My buddy (who isn't as good looking), has like 7 or 8. I'm not a hater by any means, something just doesn't make sense. Could the reason be that I created a spoof Facebook account (which has 0 friends on it), and my friend used his real one? There has to be some algorithm that is filtering it.

Any thoughts?

BTW - He also paid for it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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evansblue

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I don't know. He's gotten a few numbers and set up some dates later this week. He showed me his phone.

I don't really care that he's beating me, I'm just salty because I haven't had a single match. I don't get it. I have a very very hard time believing that not a single girl "liked" my profile. Seems odd...

edit - I just checked my tinder bio, I don't have anything in there. I thought I did... I wonder if that matters.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sho-No-Luv

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I model part time. Here's one of the pics I posted.
Take off the glasses and take two more pics, update profile, and i bet you get a different result. Just my opinion..
 

Red Legg

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I put up Tinder a week ago (much to my main plates chagrin) and have about 60 matches, 15 have started conversations with me,in which I have only replied to two of them,I find Tinder to be very easy..
 

evansblue

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I'm not big on the glasses either, but my eyes are not good. It's hard to believe that the glasses would be the deal breaker... lasik? i don't like contacts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Building_and_Loan

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I put up Tinder a week ago (much to my main plates chagrin) and have about 60 matches, 15 have started conversations with me,in which I have only replied to two of them,I find Tinder to be very easy..
Update this every time you actually meet up with one. Let alone bang one.
 

skinnyguy

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You're lucky. I get matches... and they are all spam
 

Glassguy

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I get lays on Tinder but you have to weed through the muck. If you are not getting matches, change your pics/profile and dont forget to reset your account every now and then. Men and women both swipe very quickly and you'd be surprised how many times you'll match the second or third time around.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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do yourself a favor and uninstall this app. i use it because its comfortable but women there in 99% are worthless attention *****s.

and to get sex/relationship on OLD from 5/10 woman you have to be 9/10 (or lie that you are) and lucky.

i have 2 meters and a sixpack and some women is traveling 50km to meet me tommorow (what a desperate). but thats rare. you will usually get offended by really bad quality women (and ignored)
 

The Duke

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I have to swipe like a crazy fool all week long to accomplish anything on Tinder. Went out Saturday night, got a number off a girl that walked up to my car when I was sitting in traffic. Got a 2nd number when I sat down next to a girl at a patio bar and chatted for 25min. Both girls texted me the next morning as well. ;-)

My buddy who swipes on Tinder all week long and has about the same results I do, also got 2 numbers that night.
 

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Tinder is a waste of time for most men., you have higher success hitting the field

But if you live in a place where it gets -30 below zero in the winter than you don't have much options
 

Who Dares Win

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Im not in the 0 matches club but Im in the 0 dates one for the last semester.

My friend who happens to be better looking and photogenic gets more matches, more numbers but most of the girls are 2 points lower in person or make setting the date more time and energy consuming than approaching girls on the streets.

Whatever is your environment and success in it, tinder just makes it more of it, hot guys get laid faster while average ones dont.
 

PeasantPlayer

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I have to swipe like a crazy fool all week long to accomplish anything on Tinder. Went out Saturday night, got a number off a girl that walked up to my car when I was sitting in traffic. Got a 2nd number when I sat down next to a girl at a patio bar and chatted for 25min. Both girls texted me the next morning as well. ;-)

My buddy who swipes on Tinder all week long and has about the same results I do, also got 2 numbers that night.
Me to I get numbers and women off Tinder, my friends score more on Tinder.....hmmmmm
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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