"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sup guys i came across this site and its some pretty deep stuff.. Its not about how to pick women up lol its about the real Don Juans teachings.
Anyways theres some MP3s in the middle of the page that you can listen to.
Its a guy reading don juans teachings. I listened to the first one and i feel great after taking it all in. Its kinda zen and teaches you to quit thinking so dam much and just see the world for what it really is.
Starts off kinda boring but really gets good later.Enjoy
http://www.prismagems.com/castaneda/
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bumpety bump,

This stuff is well worth a listen, I'm about 2/3's the way through, become aware of your EGO gents. It does more harm than good. Rep points to you Skybound
 

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Thanks bro i listened to the first 2 tapes and they were really good. I just got back into town so gona listen all night.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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