“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zen and Seduction

Snatchmaster

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First let me thank Metaphysikal_Lover for breaking it down on the hb9.

You know, it's like I know this stuff, but I've forgotten so much being locked away in an LTR.

In my gut I know I have interest from her. It's the little basics, like watching her eye movements and such is where I needed the instruction.

When I was younger I was a natural with women, so I didn't put much analysis into my game. I just did what felt right.

Then one day I woke up to find myself an AFC with no self-confidence thanks to a very witchy woman. For a long time afterwards I didn't have enough trust in women, or myself, to make much headway.

But what I found was that when I could let myself be me, that's when I got the women. When I am in touch with myself.

This really sunk in a few years ago, while I was hanging out in Thailand.

Women were drawn to me - approaching me.

My attitude was thus:

To be host of the party around us, otherwise known as the universe.

I do not have to be in love to treat a woman kindly.

To listen to her STORY without being judgemental or offering solutions.

To be relaxed in stressful situations.


Four women I was with (whom I had met there) went away to a buddhist meditations where they were not allowed to speak.

There they were taught:

Loving Kindness
Greater Understanding
A Higher Consciousness

One girl told me, "This is what you teach, Snatchmaster."

I AM the center of the universe. So are you.

Metaphysical started to riff on this a bit with the player being one with the game.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Snatchmaster
My attitude was thus:

To be host of the party around us, otherwise known as the universe.

Occasional Gems like this are the reason I still visit this site.
 
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The goal is to take your mack to the level of zen until you become the ultimate zenmack or playersupreme.
 
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