"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OK Guys,
Im kind of new to this,havent been on this site for a long long time.What made me come back here......I just finished relationship after 8 months,and need to bounce.Well finished like finished,maybe still can keep it but i would be looser :cuss: there.I dont want that any more.......so im gona start as well what another people doing here.I never had balls to do it but hope,this time.......i can be proved of myself.So tomoz with couple of guys going out to try some cold approaches......Im gona post some tomoz.......

Somethink about me:
Im 25,would say good looking,studying fulltime,working fulltime,going out sometimes,not much thought,dont find it very fullfiling,hitting gym a bit and martial arts,doing good in general.Had about 3 seriouse relationships,in every one of them girl broke up with me....for diffrent reason,but i think its still the same.Im not MAN enough.This is gona change and pronto.:rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nice

I'm gonna be following this
but to be a favor and please try to spell/grammar as best as you can reading "tomoz" reminds me of a lame trying to type, uggh

peace
 

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ok guys,i didnt do much today,spent about 4 hours with my doctor,which screwed my schedle for today.then i had to go find some accomodation for myself,because i have to travel 1 there and 1 back to school...it took few hours from my day,so i didnt actualy have time to go out and approch...just excuse
 

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i called my boys to go out,but they said its too late for that,we got together about at 8pm....**** i was pissed off,but we went to local pub,just very few girls,tried to approch,but very rusty,with no confidence,anyway they wery *****y...only think i tried was hitting on bartender,not wery good looking about hb5,just had some fluff talk....she was sending mixed signals...
 

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general bad night,but tommorrow going out so send ill send report.... And friday or saturday doing day game,got much stuff to study...hope u doing better than me...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thanks for that man,i just have to realy start with that,already passed 2 opportunities this morning...****...just chicken out
 

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ok guys done first two approaches,feel so so proud...my heart still beeting like crazy...so good...ill write report on it later..
 

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guys,i did go clubing tonight,done about 20-30 approaches,got 3 phone no..realy hot chicks,but realy hb9 all of them,im so proud,ive done this before,i didnt take chick home with me tonight,i got slaped in face,almost got in bravl fight,just cos i approach...i love it...ill send details tommorow..
 

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ok i came to school in the morning........was pissed off,with my self,got few hours of lectures a missed on few opportunites to approch....but than,we had break,1 hour.......we were sitting with friends at the table....just chatting,booring as hell....couldnt stand it....so i got up,without saying **** to anybody and went out to look for chicks......was soooo nervouse.....;o)i went out and seen this girl out side,having cigaret......so i asked her for lighter...she is from south africa,very,very hot,tall,slim,big tits,beautiful bum...got damn...HB9 or 10...started talkin to her,just fluf talk,she was very cold,but i didint give a ****,just vanted to get it done,i didnt ask for no,ask her for name second time,seid nice to meet u and left......might be **** for u,but it means much to me,ive never done it before,without carring what she thinks about me....
approach no 2....after i finished i went librari...no hot chick....so i went to back to caffe shop,was gona buy myself coffe....there was some cute chick standing in front of me...so i just started talkin to her......man,it was so coll,people from my group,was just steering at me,what am i doing,just had some fluf talk,but she was very nice........even when she eas leaving she said nice to meet u and turn around,i felt so good,so proud...should of ask for no...but it was not on cards.........people stearing at me,i was loud and confident.....she was 19......approach no 3,which i was most proved of......im...:O))) was sitting with people at the table.....was bored,looking around.....see girl,3 tables next,very cute,about hb 8 fit,nice veri nice,started thinking....what im gona do.....:O))) was scared,than something came,i just got up from setti and startin walking towards her,man my heart was going.........whwe i came to table,just grabed chair and said,i seen u from over there and wanted to come over to talk to u because i think u are quite cute...:O)))she was just reading news paper..:O))) her face just change,she looked boored befor,but after taht she was all happy...just had a little fluuf talk for about 3 minutes and i shook her hand when i was leaving...again.......maybe not much for u guys,but it was so good........
people at my table was just looking at me,like what the ****,guys was like,what didi u say?i told them.....they are like i dony have balls for that...:O))) made me feel even better,they were just looking up to me in that minute,about 6 people...:O))....i had chat with them......for couple minutes,but i wanted more,i got up and went got some more coffe,thats when i approach again in the cue
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i got to go to bed......ill finish it tommorow,its much more to come....:O)))im so proved of myself....:O)) and girls can feel it...;o) got so many eye contacts..>:O))
 

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got 3 phone no,tonight,most i evr got in my life...:O)) one girl,man,so cute.........just cant imagine.....dam......beatufull and nice,so nice.....gave me her no,but have bf....:O)))have to sort taht out somehow..:O))
waas competing with my friend who is going to get moor numbers...:O)) he got 6 i got 3,but great night..:O)
 

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i havent done any approach so far this week,kind of stragling....cant make my self to do it,it seems to me every were i look,girls ar in groups,it just puts me off,got one no.yesterday,my friend just call girl over on the street to talk to us..little fluff talk..she was like we should exchange numbers...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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got 4 numbers from last week,did text one,no answer,dont realy know what to text...so its not boring,called another one,she answerd,just talked for a minute,i kind of dont know how to make it interesting...told her we should hang out this week,she said cool...dont know,should i call her again now or text,or just wait if she calls or text
 

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didnt call or text another 2 numbers i got,scared a bit....could anybody give me some advice guys?thanks
 

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Great stuff so far man. As 4 the #s u gotta just call em man. The more u do it the less difficult it is. Congrats on the success so far, keep it going!
 

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Thanks Guys,ill try to do....Just take it as a practise......

I went out clubing yesterday,opened about 20 set again,if not more,but no phone numbers,dont know what was going on,got few good conversations,funny,kino a lot,holding girls around waist....but when i pulled out phone said give me your no,they just refused....then i opened some sets with girls in groups,its ****.....guys,i talked to a chick having fun and then another comes and just take her away.......

Pus i meet my ex there,not good,it ****ed my up realy realy bad,just tried to talk to her be friedly,she just said she hates me because of the stuff i told her......dont know,then said she has new bf,which i dont realy belive but made me think again about staff......

I usualy open sets with Hey u cute,whats ur name?
or im making a list of girls which might have chance with me tonight,whats ur name?(read it somewhere here)
or just,hey whats wrong with u.......and just find somethink funny at her....

But honestly dont like clubbing game...its difficult...i have to get my ass to town.....and just do it there
 

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guys how do u create raptor?im not scared to approach i would say,its just i dont know how to make it funny from there...is this gona come up from practise just talking to them as much as posible??

What is your opinion hitting on the girls from uni?its not big campus,and if i get burn few times,i wory its gona spread around.....any advice please
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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