"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zarky

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I'll give it to you, you're not a complete crack pot. I've read some of your stuff. Not bad. I liked your response to one of those love threads. I see it now. You're just upset with all the beta-ism on here. I can see why now. Hate to say it guys, Zarky is of some value.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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William J. Rubinoff

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I've been following this board for a long time, though only recently decided to register. In my opinion, Zarky is definitely one of the more mystifying posters here. Sometimes I think that the man is genius. His strategy for getting laid using POF is so though and well thought-out, it might as well have been written by Sun Tzu.

Yet, at other times, I think that the guy is off his trolley. When one succeeds in eking out a kernel of content from Zarky's linguistic games and complex exegeses, it usually turns out to be either banal or blatantly false. He has demonstrated, times and times again, that he cannot be reasoned out of his prejudices or argued out of his selfishness. Moreover, by using bombastic language and selective quotation, Zarky is ruining other people’s enjoyment of SoSuave.
 

Married Buried

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You sure Zarky is a guy? The blog in his sig sounds like a womans writing.
 
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