hey guys i havent been on ss for a few months now. so basically now i have noticed how social backwards i have been becoming, so i have decided to start my own bootcamp tommorrow morning. i'm going to follow the same rules as the bootcamp and i"m going to post at least once a week. i'm going to use this as a journal but i will also appreciate some feedback. If any of you guys would like to join let me know so we could go through the bootcamp together.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yrock181's bootcamps journal
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
so far guys i have completed my first week. i have finished all
all 50 his. i keep forgetting to keep count of the eye contacts.
i have also tried opening some girls.
so far this week i havent opened,succesfully.
for example i spoke to one girl on the train while heading to school.
me: did it hurt when you got it? ( talking about her pierced lip)
her: no.
me: really u r probably lying to me. how does it feel, is it like a pinch or what.
then i noticed that she had to lip piercing, and i said that it must not be painful for her. after that i gave up on trying to keep the conversation going. do you guys have aby tips that might help, especially now that im going to week 2?
all 50 his. i keep forgetting to keep count of the eye contacts.
i have also tried opening some girls.
so far this week i havent opened,succesfully.
for example i spoke to one girl on the train while heading to school.
me: did it hurt when you got it? ( talking about her pierced lip)
her: no.
me: really u r probably lying to me. how does it feel, is it like a pinch or what.
then i noticed that she had to lip piercing, and i said that it must not be painful for her. after that i gave up on trying to keep the conversation going. do you guys have aby tips that might help, especially now that im going to week 2?
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
BE CURIOUS, thats it. Ur doing fine, just keep what ur doing, dw what they think of u, if they like u they like u , if not who cares.
thanks for the support. i find it hard not to not to care but im trying not to. there are sometimes where i think to much and hestitate but i just try to go through with it. but its true what u say dude if they like they and if they dont who cares.rushing dude 123 said:BE CURIOUS, thats it. Ur doing fine, just keep what ur doing, dw what they think of u, if they like u they like u , if not who cares.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So week two i ended up finishing on thursday. I did all my 10/10 conversations with the strangers. In the beginning it was easy but then i got lazy towards the end and ended up finishing it one day late.
One particular conversation that i remember was with a girl that was on the train.
Me: he that interesting lip ring did it hurt?
her. NO not really.
me: so how does it feel like? is it like getting pinched or what?
her: yea something like that.
me: see i don't know if i could trust because my friend takes drugs for those sort of things.
after that we talked a little more but i can't remember. WIth this girl i felt that i could have pushed a little more to get her to talk but i let the conversation die out. do you guys tend to do this too?
About week three im going to started tommorrow due to the fact that i was doing school work and its finals week. so ill post on that later.
One particular conversation that i remember was with a girl that was on the train.
Me: he that interesting lip ring did it hurt?
her. NO not really.
me: so how does it feel like? is it like getting pinched or what?
her: yea something like that.
me: see i don't know if i could trust because my friend takes drugs for those sort of things.
after that we talked a little more but i can't remember. WIth this girl i felt that i could have pushed a little more to get her to talk but i let the conversation die out. do you guys tend to do this too?
About week three im going to started tommorrow due to the fact that i was doing school work and its finals week. so ill post on that later.