hey guys i havent been on ss for a few months now. so basically now i have noticed how social backwards i have been becoming, so i have decided to start my own bootcamp tommorrow morning. i'm going to follow the same rules as the bootcamp and i"m going to post at least once a week. i'm going to use this as a journal but i will also appreciate some feedback. If any of you guys would like to join let me know so we could go through the bootcamp together.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
so far guys i have completed my first week. i have finished all
all 50 his. i keep forgetting to keep count of the eye contacts.
i have also tried opening some girls.
so far this week i havent opened,succesfully.
for example i spoke to one girl on the train while heading to school.
me: did it hurt when you got it? ( talking about her pierced lip)
her: no.
me: really u r probably lying to me. how does it feel, is it like a pinch or what.
then i noticed that she had to lip piercing, and i said that it must not be painful for her. after that i gave up on trying to keep the conversation going. do you guys have aby tips that might help, especially now that im going to week 2?
all 50 his. i keep forgetting to keep count of the eye contacts.
i have also tried opening some girls.
so far this week i havent opened,succesfully.
for example i spoke to one girl on the train while heading to school.
me: did it hurt when you got it? ( talking about her pierced lip)
her: no.
me: really u r probably lying to me. how does it feel, is it like a pinch or what.
then i noticed that she had to lip piercing, and i said that it must not be painful for her. after that i gave up on trying to keep the conversation going. do you guys have aby tips that might help, especially now that im going to week 2?
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
BE CURIOUS, thats it. Ur doing fine, just keep what ur doing, dw what they think of u, if they like u they like u , if not who cares.
thanks for the support. i find it hard not to not to care but im trying not to. there are sometimes where i think to much and hestitate but i just try to go through with it. but its true what u say dude if they like they and if they dont who cares.rushing dude 123 said:BE CURIOUS, thats it. Ur doing fine, just keep what ur doing, dw what they think of u, if they like u they like u , if not who cares.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So week two i ended up finishing on thursday. I did all my 10/10 conversations with the strangers. In the beginning it was easy but then i got lazy towards the end and ended up finishing it one day late.
One particular conversation that i remember was with a girl that was on the train.
Me: he that interesting lip ring did it hurt?
her. NO not really.
me: so how does it feel like? is it like getting pinched or what?
her: yea something like that.
me: see i don't know if i could trust because my friend takes drugs for those sort of things.
after that we talked a little more but i can't remember. WIth this girl i felt that i could have pushed a little more to get her to talk but i let the conversation die out. do you guys tend to do this too?
About week three im going to started tommorrow due to the fact that i was doing school work and its finals week. so ill post on that later.
One particular conversation that i remember was with a girl that was on the train.
Me: he that interesting lip ring did it hurt?
her. NO not really.
me: so how does it feel like? is it like getting pinched or what?
her: yea something like that.
me: see i don't know if i could trust because my friend takes drugs for those sort of things.
after that we talked a little more but i can't remember. WIth this girl i felt that i could have pushed a little more to get her to talk but i let the conversation die out. do you guys tend to do this too?
About week three im going to started tommorrow due to the fact that i was doing school work and its finals week. so ill post on that later.