Aall right...say you met a woman on a Wednesday, talked to her and got her number. You called her two days later and set a date for the weekend...perhaps a Sunday. The date seemed to go well. When next should you call her after that and how often? Should you disappear for a couple of days to let her chase you and seem mysterious? If so, can you stay without calling her for a week or would that be too much/exaggerating? What can you do to avoid being labeled "clingy" and "needy?"
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You've Got Her Number: How Often Should You Call?
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The problem isn't being labled "clingy" and "needy", the problem is being "clingy" and "needy". There is nothing needy or clingy for setting up dates everytime you call, but skipping a whole week of calling would tell the girl that you aren't interested. You need to let her know you are.
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I see. I don't mean to be bothersome, but how much is a couple of days after a date? Do you call her for example three days after each date or so, three days after the second date, and then wait to see if she starts calling back?
I see. I don't mean to be bothersome, but how much is a couple of days after a date? Do you call her for example three days after each date or so, three days after the second date, and then wait to see if she starts calling back?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I hear you, Shezz. Well, I used to call a woman like that quite frequently to show interest (I don't mean everday or every other day) at least every week-once or twice-and she still left. Things still didn't work out. Anyway, maybe she was the wrong woman for me. She was 7 years older than me-35; I'm 28.
I hear you, Shezz. Well, I used to call a woman like that quite frequently to show interest (I don't mean everday or every other day) at least every week-once or twice-and she still left. Things still didn't work out. Anyway, maybe she was the wrong woman for me. She was 7 years older than me-35; I'm 28.