"YouTube Alpha Male" exposed for being with a single mom

[CornbreadFed]

What is it about single moms that deems them unworthy for dating?

Nothing, they are just low hanging fruit

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The louder someone yells something,the more likely it is to distract you from looking at them doing it.

Almost like they are trying to ensure you could never believe it by them saying it over and over again as loud as possible.

 

[CornbreadFed]

For me, I'm a childless male. I have no interest in raising another man's children with a woman. I don't want to use any of my resources, including my time, on offspring that aren't my own.

Then don’t raise the kid lol

 

[SW15]

Then don’t raise the kid lol

I've been successfully avoiding single moms and I'm in my early 40s. That's an achievement.

I think it would be difficult for most guys dating a single mom in a longer term committed way not to be involved with the child in some way. It's inevitable to spend time with her kid at some point. That's a bit of a downer.

I've perceived that dating is complicated enough without kids under 18 in the picture.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I've been successfully avoiding single moms and I'm in my early 40s. That's an achievement.

I think it would be difficult for most guys dating a single mom in a longer term committed way not to be involved with the child in some way. It's inevitable to spend time with her kid at some point. That's a bit of a downer.

I've perceived that dating is complicated enough without kids under 18 in the picture.

If you are dating just to fvck around, I don't see how the woman having a kid would matter. Most single moms aren't going around looking for a future dad for their kids unless the guy is putting up a beta male provider vibe upfront. The only thing that matters in this situation is she hot and does she have a vagina.

 

[SW15]

If you are dating just to fvck around, I don't see how the woman having a kid would matter. Most single moms aren't going around looking for a future dad for their kids unless the guy is putting up a beta male provider vibe upfront. The only thing that matters in this situation is she hot and does she have a vagina.

I disagree. It's inevitable that dating a single mom would involve spending time around her children. That's additional, undesirable baggage for childless men. Men with children from previous relationships are often more accepting of that but even they aren't that excited to spend time with her previous relationship children.

It gets more difficult to arrange to spend time with a single mom because of her additional time constraints due to having a child. In a committed relationship, that is really annoying.

It's additional baggage that can be avoided by only interacting with childless women.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I disagree. It's inevitable that dating a single mom would involve spending time around her children. That's additional, undesirable baggage for childless men. Men with children from previous relationships are often more accepting of that but even they aren't that excited to spend time with her previous relationship children.

If you set the standards upfront and you meet the type of single mom's just looking to mess around, this shouldn't be a problem. However, if you are playing the hope strategy and wasting a woman's time then yes I can see this being an issue later down the road. In addition, if you are dating to look for a girlfriend- potential wife, then I completely understand your POV.

It gets more difficult to arrange to spend time with a single mom because of her additional time constraints due to having a child. In a committed relationship, that is really annoying.

If you set up the type of relationship I am talking about then you shouldn't be seeing your girl every day or frequently, so I think this works better in your favor.

 

[SW15]

if you are dating to look for a girlfriend- potential wife, then I completely understand your POV.

I tend to look more for girlfriends as a serial monogamist more so than short term sex. Short term, often uncommitted sex with single moms can be a good option for a man who is looking for casual options and possibly wanting to run a rotation of 2+ women.

In my ideal relationship, I would be seeing a woman a few days a week, but have a few days a week to myself. One of my friends had this setup with his girlfriend in the past before eventually moving in with her and marrying her.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Single mothers are failed women. The older they are, the worse they are. If it's a young single mother, you can kind of get away with doing fun stuff with them. But unless you have a child yourself, not worth messing with them. And this wisdom doesn't need any explanation. There's thousands of men would say the same that were in the same situation. Their stories are plentiful.

 

[devilkingx2]

The only reason I can see for dating a single mom is:

1. desperation/bad market - you lack better options

2. sale on a luxury good - she’s out of your league normally but the child lowers her value enough that you can be with her.

3. You need a woman who’s going to be busy most of the time (childcare + full time job) so you can do other things (or other women)