"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Youth, Beauty, and Innocence

oOh Nasty

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A tell of a man's SMV from my observations is the chick he's exclusive or all lovey-dovey with. I mean, I get it, some dudes marry young and then their wives end up aging 10x the speed of a regular human being and losing all of their looks, but I'm talking about guys who consciously make the decision to marry or get into LTRs with chicks who only posses 1 of the 3 qualities. Dudes with high SMV go for chicks with all 3 traits or 2 of 3. Hell, even as a plate, I'd still need 2 of 3.

A guy could be decent looking, make decent money, and seem to have his shlt together. But then he shows up with a whale, an ugly/average chick, a sloot-eyed woman way past her prime, or a feminist cvnt. And unless she's your wife of at least 5 years...I can't believe guys can go out in public and not feel a tad bit embarrassed.

I don't have a tw!tter account so this is my tweet of the year.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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