Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Yourself approaching two girls

LeonSK

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Say if you are only interested in one of them, how do you separate her out? or do you just try to get both of their numbers?

Today I approached two girls who were talking to each other, after I interrupted and chatted with them for a bit, the girl i didn't like clearly wanted to get back to their own conversation so she said to me, "it was nice meeting you." basically saying "you can leave now." Pretty sure I will have chance to meet the girl I like again, so I left.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJSebast

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I know what you mean, a lot of my recent approaches are with two girls and it sucks. I always get both numbers and try to befriend the one I don't want so she has good things to say about me to the one I do want.

It doesn't hurt to have some help from a best friend.

Also, my advice would be not to seclude the one you want too much cause it always pisses off the friend to be left alone and waiting, and she might badmouth you when you're gone. You know how jealous unnattractive best friends are. But if you think you can get enough interest for her to ignore her friend.

Go for it!
 

Snow Plowman

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Give your number to the one who peak your interest...

However, there is a "larger" issue than that. You might actually lack depth if you allow some chick to say "it was nice meeting you" in such a manner. SHOULD HAVE CALLED HER OUT!!! From my perspective, that is disrespectful as if I was being a pest or something. Is she that socially retarded?

As for 2sets overall, simply screen the girl you like by asking the other one about her. Thing is, her friend doesn't know if your girl would like to meet you or not SO the best option for her is to qualify her friend to everything you ask. (A friend wouldn't say "yea she's a boring chick")
 
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