"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LeonSK

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Say if you are only interested in one of them, how do you separate her out? or do you just try to get both of their numbers?

Today I approached two girls who were talking to each other, after I interrupted and chatted with them for a bit, the girl i didn't like clearly wanted to get back to their own conversation so she said to me, "it was nice meeting you." basically saying "you can leave now." Pretty sure I will have chance to meet the girl I like again, so I left.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know what you mean, a lot of my recent approaches are with two girls and it sucks. I always get both numbers and try to befriend the one I don't want so she has good things to say about me to the one I do want.

It doesn't hurt to have some help from a best friend.

Also, my advice would be not to seclude the one you want too much cause it always pisses off the friend to be left alone and waiting, and she might badmouth you when you're gone. You know how jealous unnattractive best friends are. But if you think you can get enough interest for her to ignore her friend.

Go for it!
 
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Give your number to the one who peak your interest...

However, there is a "larger" issue than that. You might actually lack depth if you allow some chick to say "it was nice meeting you" in such a manner. SHOULD HAVE CALLED HER OUT!!! From my perspective, that is disrespectful as if I was being a pest or something. Is she that socially retarded?

As for 2sets overall, simply screen the girl you like by asking the other one about her. Thing is, her friend doesn't know if your girl would like to meet you or not SO the best option for her is to qualify her friend to everything you ask. (A friend wouldn't say "yea she's a boring chick")
 
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