"you're so nice"

[calvran]

Numerous times lately, when I am introduced to a female friend or friends of a friend, I'll start talking to them a little bit, and then they will say "You're so nice" or (to my friend) "Your friends are so nice!"

Is this a good kind of nice or a "what a wussy afc" kind of nice?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

it is probably the latter wussy" afc type, it's not neccesarily a bad thing, but don't expect 2 get laid by being "nice" Try more C&F in your routine, and if you don't no what that is search for it in the archives and read the DJ bible

 

[NEWBIE101]

It's ok to be nice so she knows she can trust you and all.

But don't go overboard by always giving in to everything she says or wants.

 

[bud_2005]

Being told by a girl that you are nice is one of the worst compliments you can get.

 

[Pheonix:ScndrlReborn]

Originally posted by bud_2005
Being told by a girl that you are nice is one of the worst compliments you can get.

Not true. I have been told by all the girls that i seduce that one of the things that attracted them to me was that i was nice. I'm not saying that it's true, but what i am saying is that a woman who is interested in you can call you nice.

 

[Sax God]

Originally posted by NEWBIE101
It's ok to be nice so she knows she can trust you and all.

But don't go overboard by always giving in to everything she says or wants.

This is true. It's okay to be fairly nice, but don't over-do it. It's always better to be seen as a jerk by some than to be seen as a friend by all.

 

[dip]

HAHA!! I don't get that anymore!!

Back in my AFC, newbie DJ days I used to get it a lot, not not anymore!!

The reason that you get it is because you are NOT ****y/funny enough. You are eather quite or shy around her. Or you are just too nice. When your around girls just act like a jack ass...they love it!! Seriously, I always make jokes when talking to girls in person/on the phone and they love it!! They say things like "ahh ur so mean!!" and "i wish i knew a nice guy!" or "i hate you!!"-although they must LOVE me..otherwise i wouldnt be gettin any a$$!! Even when I talk to them, sometimes you can tell that they don't want nice guys, they want someone to have fun with and someone who can make jokes!

 

[darkmenace]

i really dont get the "your soo nice" compliments that much anymore

Now theyre mostly "your mean" followed by laughter and touching me.
but when its something real good I get the "your so sweet", followed by a girl giving me some cutesy eyes

 

[Stratocaster]

Well if you think about it, what else are they supposed to say? "You are so friggin confident sexy and i want your body"??? When they first meet you?? Saying you are nice is really the only thing she could say that is acceptable and wouldn't attract major attention. The word nice in that situation also means sexy, confident, whatever.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

quit ****ing overanalyzing.

 

[bud_2005]

quit telling us what to do

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

shut the **** up!

 

[Sax God]

Another argument via the forum. Great...

Way to waste the space, guys.

 

[lollipop]

Who wins the argument is the alpha man!

 

[Sammo]

I agree with ded skin mask! There are so many reasons for her to say that to you, she might say it because she wants to compliment you but thats all she thinks is appropriate, she might say it because your a nice guy AFC, she might say it for no reason at all, the fact of the matter is that it doesnt matter!

Just keep DJing her as usual until you get a YES or a NO. Even if chances seem slim its worth a shot.