IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
Warning: partial blog post
I got a new plate (totalling two) recently who said this to me after asking why I said "Meet me at X at 6 on Monday" without asking if she wanted to meet me and if she was free. I said "I think most girls like being told what to do", and she responded with the quote in the title. Very nice ego-boost, but more importantly it tells me I'm becoming more confident and my game is improving. I love these moments that prove that game works, it's so satisfying, not just to have my own game validated, but in the broader sense.
I still tend to change from alpha to beta quite quickly, which seems to be having the effect of making the relationship progress too fast. For example my main plate keeps making jokes about me being in love with her, even though I've only been seeing her for a week. I suspect I'm making too much eye contact and it looks like I'm giving loving glances all the time.
Now for a question: plate 2 keeps making jokes about how many girls I must sleep with all the time, and she says she doesn't necessarily like guys who are good with girls because they're not good for relationships. My read is that she's a little worried about being pumped-and-dumped or thinks I seem unattainable. I want to keep banging her and I don't want her to have buyer's remorse. The thing is I don't want a relationship (which she knows) or to lead her on. I would normally try to give her more comfort but I don't want her to mistake it for more.
How should I proceed? As normal but reiterate that there's no relationship forthcoming? As I currently am, allowing her to stay uncomfortable? Or is it not worth worrying about? I know girls sometimes get their hopes up whatever you say, which happened before.
I got a new plate (totalling two) recently who said this to me after asking why I said "Meet me at X at 6 on Monday" without asking if she wanted to meet me and if she was free. I said "I think most girls like being told what to do", and she responded with the quote in the title. Very nice ego-boost, but more importantly it tells me I'm becoming more confident and my game is improving. I love these moments that prove that game works, it's so satisfying, not just to have my own game validated, but in the broader sense.
I still tend to change from alpha to beta quite quickly, which seems to be having the effect of making the relationship progress too fast. For example my main plate keeps making jokes about me being in love with her, even though I've only been seeing her for a week. I suspect I'm making too much eye contact and it looks like I'm giving loving glances all the time.
Now for a question: plate 2 keeps making jokes about how many girls I must sleep with all the time, and she says she doesn't necessarily like guys who are good with girls because they're not good for relationships. My read is that she's a little worried about being pumped-and-dumped or thinks I seem unattainable. I want to keep banging her and I don't want her to have buyer's remorse. The thing is I don't want a relationship (which she knows) or to lead her on. I would normally try to give her more comfort but I don't want her to mistake it for more.
How should I proceed? As normal but reiterate that there's no relationship forthcoming? As I currently am, allowing her to stay uncomfortable? Or is it not worth worrying about? I know girls sometimes get their hopes up whatever you say, which happened before.
