"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Youre game must be perpetual.

SgtSplacker

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Your game must be perpetual.

Hot 50 year old lady last night married for 23 years, talking to me at the bar telling me she wishes her hubby would make her jealous every so often. She had 3 kids and 3 grandkids with him. She was all over anyone she could be all over, talking about how she loves her husband, even crying to me about feeling guilty over what she was doing because she texted some dude she met on FB for sex.

Moral of the story is you can never relinquish your game. You can never let her feel she has you. You must maintain enough control to spend time with your female friends and let her know you are doing it up front and in the open. She must know at all times that she is not more important than the things you want to do whatever they may be. You have to be #1 and she must serve you.

Personally I have a theory that women must be kept in a perpetual state of suffering as far as her never really feeling secure with your relationship. Her emotional mind must never grow past the initial feeling of just entering a relationship with you. Constant square one, over and over again forever until she is well out of the dating game. This goes for any woman that is reasonably ambitious.

Miss a valentines day, bday, or anniversary every once in a while. Just wipe your arse with it.

Spend time with other women.

Talk about other women.

Disappear every so often.

Take trips with friends.

Just say NO.

You have to be a diick sometimes.

This may sound cruel but I really think women's brains are different than men's brains. I think they need this to feel right with themselves, to stay happy. It's hard to explain but your relationship always has to kinda "be the kind of thing that doesn't work, but ends up working". You have to find the line on the floor and stay just on the other side of it tipping over just a little bit every so often. Her biggest reward always has to be the relationship itself. Take it from her every once in a while and let her miss it. Then give it back. Like a lab monkey in a cage feverishly pressing a button for the same treat over and over again because it never gets just enough to be satisfied. This kind of strife and drama is all women like to entertain themselves with anyways, you are just providing it for her, instead of her having to go out and get it by hating on her friends or watching soap operas.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your typo in the title invalidates everything you just said. Sorry.

j/k nice post, I agree.
 

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I agree here - (un)fortunately? I am currently trying to do the opposite of the above as my relationships have been hot and heavy until the very very end where she ultimately leaves because I push her too far away and give too little f*cks and validation.

They always end with an emotional outpour of resentful "you don't care about me's, you don't love me's, I want more out of this relationship, I never know what your feelings"

They are met with an "ok" from me, get furious and then hate my guts. 5-6 months goes buy and they always come knocking on my door extremely receptive to the trickles of niceguyness I throw them like your 50 yr old hot lady is sick of.


Great at building attraction, not so great with maintaining rapport. There has to be balance on both sides to sustain - word of advice, always lean slightly on the side of suffering rather than secure and shell love you for it...

Too secure and she will leave you due to low interest and challenge (You're fvcked)...

Too much suffering and she'll leave you out of frustration and protecting herself from getting hurt (Recoverable if done properly)....


Still trying to find my ideal balance for a LTR as plate spinning and game principles have skewed my abilities to signal that I am relationship material after being fvck buddies. I guess there are worse problems to have :up:
 

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Still trying to find my ideal balance for a LTR as plate spinning and game principles have skewed my abilities to signal that I am relationship material after being fvck buddies. I guess there are worse problems to have
Ever heard of cycle game? Track your girl's cycle and lean towards the alpha/suffering around her ovulation and beta/security when she's PMSing. Of course this probably won't work with chicks on birth control since that fvcks up their cycle.
 

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It's kinda like a cycle of :

nice, sweet, caring, loving, absent, uncaring, dıck
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Funny thing is i've been reading lots of red pill stuff on reddit lately. Even read a thread about the most hated forum on reddit and everyone voted the red pill forum as the most hated that should be removed. I almost started thinking it was a bit too negative... *almost*

Then I go out and run into this. You would think after 23 years and two fuucking generations together that she could just chill and be a good wife and not fuuck it up. Negative blue ranger it's not happening must have drunken bar sex with strangers. And she was sitting there CRYING about at as she's doing it! And she still did it!

When i'm on these forums I see basically two types of dudes. Those trying to learn technique for quick lays and those trying to change the way they are internally permanently. The technique guys aren't completely unplugged sometimes, they make allot of stupid posts too. I tend to think the technique guys are in the beginner phases of internalization. You have to stay with it, you have to change yourself permanently.
 
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