"You're cold hearted"

[Bloke]

When you fellas first found this site & started applying the DJ princespals (namely keeping your emotions to yourself & being mysterious), have you ever had a girl say the following :

"You're cold hearted"

"You act like you don't care about anyone anymore"

"You're selfish"

"You've changed" ?

This is a trend I have noticed since finding this site.

 

[h2o]

last semester when I just began changing...I passed through the "jerk" stage, and I kid you not, I was called assh0le by several girls yet they would always invite me to their rooms

funny how that works

it's a phase, you'll pass through it; we all did

 

[brenbaus]

yeah, basically you will get better at gaming chicks and will not seem like so much of a jerk anymore.

 

[penkitten]

i think alot of that is said when the chick is upset because she is one of two things, hurt because she hoped for a different outcome or angry because she wanted to play you.
watch for the voice tone and her actions for you to decide which of the two she is.

 

[fender85]

Or your an ******* . . . God knows I had been for the past three years of my journey. Hasn't been until the past two weeks or so that I've really grasped the concept of "natural game." True, playing girls and getting that quick action is satisfying at first, but honestly I got sick of the never-ending rotation of girls. This is an important part of your journey though; the confidence you find and the ability to pick-up will transition with you, just rather toward the goal of finding a relationship with a girl you can really vibe with and not the "insta-date" and first night lay with the hot blonde you met at the bar. Sorry for ranting, just had a wave of epiphanies lately.