You're bound to meet some chicks that turn out to be "winners".

[9Volt]

Not every chick. But there are chicks you're going to meet that aren't worth your time.

The flakey weirdos, the chicks that talk our their azz or the chicks that simply flirt for the hell of it and want nothing more. Perhaps because things aren't in their full control with some other dude they have built a "perfect" fantasy in their mind about.

Some may have a few screws loose. Some are just toxic.

Look past their looks while looking at yourself internally. Do you really need some chick who's "off" in the head, plays kid games, etc? Do you need their validation ignoring red flags? If so then why. You can only blame yourself if you keep choosing to waste your life spending time on dead ends.

 

[sazc]

I think the idea that "this one is paying attention to me, I cant pass her up" (the idea of scarcity of females) pays a large role in the type of thinking you described.

 

[9Volt]

I think the idea that "this one is paying attention to me, I cant pass her up" (the idea of scarcity of females) pays a large role in the type of thinking you described.

I've had my share of chicks who play the role for attention or are just weirdos.

They get old quick no matter how they look.

One weirdo who always came up to me at an old job flirting. Asked her to go out sometime and she started whispering noooo. I told her she was a flake and left her alone. Saw her the next day, kept it moving and she says oh so you're not going to talk to me? I said nah keep it moving and left it alone.


another one I hadn't seen in years came up to me in another job I worked at that had dated an acquaintance years back. Typical oh you look great here's my number etc. called twice, got her voicemail and never heard from her again.

another chick I knew from a wedding I was at out of nowhere in front of her husband while we're talking says oh all the girls at our old job loved 9Volt. I'm thinking that's news to me.

point being who knows what's going on in some people's heads. Some are simply bizarre.

 

[Roober]

Agreed! Winners are numbered though. They are certainly few and far between. The main thing is sticking to your values.

I know I don't like women that do selfies/snapchat a lot because I believe it says a lot about how fvcking empty she is on the inside. If I find out she does, it is usually a next for me...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Agreed! Winners are numbered though. They are certainly few and far between. The main thing is sticking to your values.

I know I don't like women that do selfies/snapchat a lot because I believe it says a lot about how fvcking empty she is on the inside. If I find out she does, it is usually a next for me...

Usually means they need excessive outside attention. That can be a problem for you. Sometimes the women use the excessive outside attention for orbiters and likes a guy no one knows about to screw. It still can be a problem because if you piss her off she will allow one of the orbiters your space.