"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're beautiful

Lordlaxative

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Just a quick question. How often should you remind a girl that she is beautiful? My girlfriend is very pretty, and has a pretty high self-confidence (for a girl), but my question is do you tell her like daily, weekly, monthly... never? I know if you say it too much you seem needy and she will then move on because she is SO beautiful, but if you say it too little then she will feel like she is not good looking enough. I know the answer varies by girl, so I guess I'm just asking for a general census from the other Don Juans. How often do you let her know? I probably tell mine 3-4 times a week through hints and I imply it but I never really come straight out and say it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Soprano

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if she has high self-confidence then she doesn't need to hear it, trust me

think of it like a "compliment meter" based on their hotness and how often guys hit on them or try to flirt with them or look at them etc.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by PurplePimp
people say i bad but you really afc

you be here at least 1 year and say tell girl she pretty? no you no learn nothing

now go read bible you afc
and you call yourself new hahahaha
 
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