"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're beautiful

Lordlaxative

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Just a quick question. How often should you remind a girl that she is beautiful? My girlfriend is very pretty, and has a pretty high self-confidence (for a girl), but my question is do you tell her like daily, weekly, monthly... never? I know if you say it too much you seem needy and she will then move on because she is SO beautiful, but if you say it too little then she will feel like she is not good looking enough. I know the answer varies by girl, so I guess I'm just asking for a general census from the other Don Juans. How often do you let her know? I probably tell mine 3-4 times a week through hints and I imply it but I never really come straight out and say it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Soprano

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if she has high self-confidence then she doesn't need to hear it, trust me

think of it like a "compliment meter" based on their hotness and how often guys hit on them or try to flirt with them or look at them etc.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by PurplePimp
people say i bad but you really afc

you be here at least 1 year and say tell girl she pretty? no you no learn nothing

now go read bible you afc
and you call yourself new hahahaha
 
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