Abbott
Master Don Juan
Introduction:
OK I noticed something interesting. When I was at Homecoming everyone there of course loved me and I probably could have gotten a number or whatever if I wanted, but I'm not attracted to that sort of chick.
The other night though I was at this After Hours frat party (for the younger guys who probably don't know After Hours is a party which doesn't start before Midnight and ends at probably around 5AM or 6AM(7AM?)).
Situation:
Anyway, there were LOTS of hotties, but of course I have no reputation to help me, I am just an unknown who's there. After a few failed attempts to get my friends to dance on the stage(the room the party was in was very big and had a stage), I decide to groove it on the stage. I can't dance, but I pretend I know how and I have fun anyway(after all that's the point, right?). This gets a few positive responses but I don't try to pursue it further because I know I'll have to leave soon (it was Friday night but I had a final to study for the following Monday ). When I get off the stage I even got the attention of some other guys there who even asked me why I didn't manage to get a hottie, and then they pointed to one who they thought was into me(though I didn't think so, she was however the only one that night who pulled my shirt so I'd be closer to her and her friend). Why am I asking about this? Because it's the college chicks I'm after, not some ditzy 15 y/o. So my rep. at school doesn't matter in this case(although my rep at school IS very good).
The Question:
This can probably be best answered only by guys who go to the college party scene and most likely age 17-20.
Does my lack of rep. and seeming(at first)* like one of the bunch of guys hurt my cause significantly?
*Note: Of course my crazy outgoing nature sets me apart from the wallflowers at a party but that's not the initial situation.
Also, is doing crazy stuff(like my getting on the stage and dancing even when I didn't know anyone there) often a good way to be noticed there?
All constructive replies will be appreciated.
Abbott
OK I noticed something interesting. When I was at Homecoming everyone there of course loved me and I probably could have gotten a number or whatever if I wanted, but I'm not attracted to that sort of chick.
The other night though I was at this After Hours frat party (for the younger guys who probably don't know After Hours is a party which doesn't start before Midnight and ends at probably around 5AM or 6AM(7AM?)).
Situation:
Anyway, there were LOTS of hotties, but of course I have no reputation to help me, I am just an unknown who's there. After a few failed attempts to get my friends to dance on the stage(the room the party was in was very big and had a stage), I decide to groove it on the stage. I can't dance, but I pretend I know how and I have fun anyway(after all that's the point, right?). This gets a few positive responses but I don't try to pursue it further because I know I'll have to leave soon (it was Friday night but I had a final to study for the following Monday ). When I get off the stage I even got the attention of some other guys there who even asked me why I didn't manage to get a hottie, and then they pointed to one who they thought was into me(though I didn't think so, she was however the only one that night who pulled my shirt so I'd be closer to her and her friend). Why am I asking about this? Because it's the college chicks I'm after, not some ditzy 15 y/o. So my rep. at school doesn't matter in this case(although my rep at school IS very good).
The Question:
This can probably be best answered only by guys who go to the college party scene and most likely age 17-20.
Does my lack of rep. and seeming(at first)* like one of the bunch of guys hurt my cause significantly?
*Note: Of course my crazy outgoing nature sets me apart from the wallflowers at a party but that's not the initial situation.
Also, is doing crazy stuff(like my getting on the stage and dancing even when I didn't know anyone there) often a good way to be noticed there?
All constructive replies will be appreciated.
Abbott