"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You're an ass" Good or Bad?

Plate calling you an ass

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    Votes: 14 93.3%
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    Votes: 1 6.7%

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BeDJ

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I texted a plate to come over at 2 AM, she texts me this morning.

You can't just tell me to come over that late and you were an ass last time we hung out.

She asked to hang out 2 days in a row right after the last time we hung out. I refused both times. I replied back

Yeah, I srsly got a nce azz
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Good. For shizzy.

Just don't crumble and go on the defense. Embrace it, smile and give a wink.
 
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BeDJ

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Her immediately response-

Uh ok
Since when do you text like a hood rat lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gravityeyelids

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BeDJ said:
Her immediately response-

Uh ok
Since when do you text like a hood rat lol
"Since I been doin hoodrat things wit mah hoodrat friends!"
 

Skyy.

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I never responded to her text. She sent over a message if we could hang out and talk that same night (yesterday.) Even if I wasn't out at the club, I still would have not responded. The text she sent was her power play. Trying to get me to give in and fulfill that need she wanted. It made me so turned off, I don't even care if she falls off the face of the earth. I can't even think of banging her again.

Guess what?

If I did give into what she wanted to hear, she would have never contacted me again, for sexy time at least. It's all a game Gentlemen, stick to your strategy and DIE by it. I'd rather fall on my feet than give up on my knees. Live and let die.
 
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